“My mother wants my lobola to go to my stepdad”: The Blind Spot
Katlego Sekhu Photo by Yusuf Kayode: https://www.pexels.com/photo/black-and-white-photo-of-a-woman-using-a-laptop-11507606/ A listener who is getting married this December should be eagerly anticipating one of the most significant moments in her life. However, she finds herself torn between her mother's suggestion that her lobola money should go to her stepfather and her own belief that it should be given to her grandfather in honour of her late father. "I am happy because my boyfriend […]