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A listener shared that his girlfriend struggles to handle her alcohol, yet she overindulges. Recently, she came home drunk while he was with his friends, leaving a negative impression.
After promising to stop drinking, just weeks later, she returned home drunk again. This was the final straw for “Anonymous,” and he is now contemplating ending the relationship.
He is reaching out to fellow Best T in the City listeners for advice, wondering if there are any blind spots he might be missing.
“Last month my girl and I went out and she got drunk. This was embarrassing and it was her first time meeting my close friends. We both drink but she overdoes it.
“The next day, I told her she needed to know her limits, as this would compromise her, more so when I’m not around. Yerr, we have been fighting about this ever since. Luckily, she finally conceded to
my demands and agreed to watch her drinking.“Just last weekend, she did it again, and that was the final straw for me. Her friend called to say I must come to fetch her as she was sloshed. I was furious, and I refused to go.
“She slept over at her friends and when she came back, she was mad at me saying I don’t care about her. Firstly, she went back on her word to stop drinking, secondly, she insisted that she does not have a drinking problem.
“I told her that since she won’t stop drinking then I will have to remove myself. I know I am being hard on her but something has to give. Am I going about this the wrong way? Could this borderline be considered controlling? What could be my blind spot?”
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— T. (@tboseZA) September 20, 2024
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