Katlego Sekhu

A listener recently shared with The Best T in the City with Tbose that a colleague of hers left her phone open, and she couldn’t resist but open the chats. What she found shook her world.
One of the revelations discovered while she was snooping through her friend’s phone was that her boss is dating the same colleague she is seeing.
Now she’s stuck between confronting her boyfriend about it but can’t because of how she obtained this information. Reaching out to Kaya 959 listeners, she wants to know if there are any blind spots she could be overlooking on her end.
“My colleague left her WhatsApp open, and I could not resist, so I opened it. I went to her messages with our manager. Most of the gossip didn’t matter as was expected. However, I saw texts where they were discussing mjolo. I saw that my manager is dating one of our male colleagues, but they don’t know that I and the guy are also in our situationship.
“Now, I want to confront the guy but how I got to see the messages can cause me problems at work. I have been avoiding the guy, but he keeps asking me why I am suddenly distant. I have not always had a good relationship with my manager so I can’t even speak to her woman to woman. I am so angry and I’m itching for war. I so want to approach her but what do I say?
“Two! I regret being nosey now I am stuck. The only solution I see here is for me to make him choose, it is either me or the manager. But then the manager also needs to know that I know. Or should I walk away? What could be my blind spot?”
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