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"My husband wants to arrange a marriage for our daughter" - The Blind Spot

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“My husband wants to arrange a marriage for our daughter” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Monstera Production: https://www.pexels.com/photo/smiling-black-family-resting-on-couch-7114420/ A listener shared that she and her husband recently told their daughter that they had found a potential partner for her. This is a common practice in their church, and it's actually how they met. However, their daughter is completely against the idea and has threatened to run away from home if they continue to push the issue. The listener is torn between […]

today14/06/2024

"My man refuses to get rid of his late wife's belongings" - The Blind Spot

Best T in the City

“My man refuses to pack away his late wife’s belongings” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Alex Green: https://www.pexels.com/photo/african-american-couple-arguing-at-home-5699690/ A listener shared that when she met her current partner, he had just lost his wife, so they remained friends for months. Eventually, he asked her out, and they started dating. Six months into their relationship, he asked her to move in. Their relationship has been going well, however, he hasn't packed away his late wife's belongings, and this is starting to bother […]

today12/06/2024

My mom told off my girlfriend, and now she’s mad at me” – The Blind Spot

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“My mom told off my girlfriend, and now she’s mad at me” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Keira Burton: https://www.pexels.com/photo/man-and-woman-arguing-6147245/ A listener shares that he recently travelled back home as they had a family funeral. After the burial, he and his cousins decided to go out partying well into the night. Unfortunately, he lost his phone, and his girlfriend couldn't reach him. She tried contacting his family members and finally got in touch with his mother. Unfortunately, their call didn't go well, as […]

today06/06/2024

“My husband doesn’t want me to work but yet he doesn’t take care of bills” – The Blind Spot

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“My husband doesn’t want me to work but yet he doesn’t take care of bills” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Alex Green: https://www.pexels.com/photo/upset-black-couple-sitting-apart-at-home-5700169/ A listener shares that when she and her husband started dating, he made it clear that he wanted a stay-at-home wife. So after they got married, she resigned. She agreed and resigned from her job after they got married. However, after seven years, he stopped giving her an allowance and taking care of bills, so she decided to find a job. Now that […]

today04/06/2024

"After our divorce, my ex-husband married my best friend" The Blind Spot

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“After our divorce, my ex-husband married my best friend” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by INSYNCT MEDIA: https://www.pexels.com/photo/photo-of-married-couple-smiling-3818088/ A listener shares that his first marriage ended because his husband was having an affair with her best friend. This broke her to the core, and it took years for her to recover. To add to her woes, her former friend and ex-husband got married. After some time, she found love again and remarried. Her current husband has developed a close relationship with […]

today31/05/2024

"My wife wants to quit her job, but my salary alone won't sustain us" - The Blind Spot

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“My wife wants to quit her job, but my salary alone won’t sustain us” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Ketut Subiyanto: https://www.pexels.com/photo/young-indian-couple-having-quarrel-at-home-4308054/ A listener recently shared that his wife is considering quitting her job because she feels exhausted. He wants to support her decision, but he's worried that his income might not be enough to support her and their kids. He reached out to fellow Best T in the City with Tbose listeners, asking if there could be any blind spots he might be missing […]

today28/05/2024

"Should I tell my brother that his wife is cheating on him?" The Blind Spot

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“Should I tell my brother that his wife is cheating on him?” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Alex Green: https://www.pexels.com/photo/black-couple-arguing-with-each-other-at-home-5699698/ A listener recently shared that she caught her sister-in-law cheating on her brother. When she confronted her sister-in-law about it, she explained that they had fallen on hard times and her husband had given up on life, turning to alcoholism. As a result, she felt neglected. The listener reached out to fellow Best T in the City listeners for advice on whether she […]

today10/05/2024

"After my salary got cut, my wife stopped being intimate with me:" The Blind Spot

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“After my salary got cut, my wife stopped being intimate with me:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Alex Green: https://www.pexels.com/photo/sorrowful-black-man-touching-head-in-dismay-near-supporting-wife-5700186/ A listener recently shared with The Best T in the City that he had to take a pay cut last year, which has put a strain on his relationship with his wife. Despite his financial challenges, she continues to be financially inconsiderate. On top of that, she has stopped being intimate with him and doesn't seem to care about their marriage. He's now […]

today06/05/2024

"My husband has fathered a baby outside our marriage and wants me to take care of the child" 

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“My husband has fathered a baby outside our marriage and wants me to take care of the child” 

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Alex Green: https://www.pexels.com/photo/annoyed-young-ethnic-couple-quarreling-in-cozy-apartment-5699841/ An anonymous listener shares that she recently found out that her husband has been cheating and fathered a child outside their marriage. When the child turned 6 months old, her husband suggested that they take care of the baby, as his mother is irresponsible. Struggling to forgive her husband for his infidelity, she wants to know from fellow Best T in the City […]

today04/05/2024

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