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"My wife's clinginess is starting to annoy me": The Blind Spot

Best T in the City

“My wife’s clinginess is starting to annoy me”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Safi Erneste: https://www.pexels.com/photo/portrait-of-a-happy-couple-18064226/ A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose to share a concern about his wife's clinginess. He expressed his deep love for her but admitted feeling trapped because he couldn't spend time with his friends without her becoming jealous. He's seeking advice from fellow listeners to determine if his concerns are coming from a selfish or unreasonable […]

today19/01/2024

Best T in the City

“I feel uncomfortable with my husband wanting to adopt his late sister’s kids”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu adoption A listener recently shared that her husband took in his sister's kids after she passed away. Now, he has brought up the idea of legally adopting them. This caught the listener off guard because her husband had never mentioned adopting her child from a previous relationship. She loves the kids as if they were her own, but she feels uneasy about the situation. She wants to know […]

today18/01/2024

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“It’s been 3 years since he proposed, but shows no intention of paying lobola”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Marriage proposal. Anonymous was over the moon when her boyfriend proposed, but her joy has turned to worry as three years have passed without any progress toward marriage. Despite his initial intention to save for Lobola, her boyfriend has yet to fulfill this commitment. Turning to The Best T in the City with Tbose for advice, Anonymous expressed her concerns about the lack of movement in their relationship, […]

today17/01/2024

"My husband always prioritizes his mother over me": The Blind Spot

Best T in the City

“My husband always prioritizes his mother over me”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Gustavo Fring: https://www.pexels.com/photo/black-and-white-photo-of-couple-holding-hands-7447424/ Anonymous confesses that she had always suspected her husband was a mama's boy, but she had no idea to what extent until they tied the knot. Now, she's reached her breaking point and is seriously considering leaving with their daughter. Seeking advice from The Best T in the City, she wonders if there's any hope left for her marriage. "When I met my […]

today10/01/2024

"After a year of marriage, I am fed up with my husband"

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“After a year of marriage, I am fed up with my husband”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Pavel Danilyuk: https://www.pexels.com/photo/a-woman-pastor-giving-blessing-to-the-newlyweds-8815290/ After just one year of marriage, Anonymous has reached her breaking point. She feels it's time to put an end to her relationship. The main issue? Her husband's alcoholism has taken a significant toll on their marriage, particularly in terms of intimacy. "I have been married for just over a year, and I'm already fed up with my husband. He has a serious […]

today31/12/2023

"I discovered lingerie in my teen daughter's bag:" The Blind Spot 

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“I found lingerie in my teen daughter’s bag:” The Blind Spot 

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Lia Castro: https://www.pexels.com/photo/close-up-photo-of-woman-crying-12340460/ A concerned mother, who has opted to remain anonymous, recently discovered lingerie in her teenage daughter's deliveries. This discovery has raised concerns about her daughter's activities. She is eager to address this matter with her daughter but is apprehensive that her daughter might see this as an invasion of her privacy. "My 18-year-old has been receiving deliveries of various school supplies and clothing […]

today16/10/2023

"I came across my friend's husband on a dating app": The Blind Spot

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“I came across my friend’s husband on a dating app”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Ono Kosuki: https://www.pexels.com/photo/focused-woman-messaging-on-smartphone-5999878/ An anonymous listener shares that she came across her best friend's husband on a dating app. What's worse is that he proposed they have a hookup, which she turned down. Now, she's torn between letting her friend know or just letting it go. "I decided to join a dating app after nearly two years of being single. While scrolling through the app, I […]

today18/09/2023

"My boyfriend doesn't want to leave his sugar mama because she gives us money":

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“My boyfriend doesn’t want to leave his sugar mama because she gives us money”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Tima Miroshnichenko: https://www.pexels.com/photo/grayscale-photo-of-woman-sitting-on-sofa-6461790/ A listener, who wishes to remain anonymous, faces a tough decision. She is torn between marrying her partner, who is involved with another woman for financial gain, or rejecting his marriage proposal. This man has all the qualities she desires in a partner, except for the fact that he has a sugar mama. Seeking guidance from The Best T in the City with […]

today14/09/2023

Dad rejects lobola for daughter as he feels she is still young for marriage

Best T in the City

Dad rejects lobola for daughter as he feels she is still young for marriage

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Liza Summer: https://www.pexels.com/photo/upset-black-woman-wiping-tears-with-tissue-6382600/ A concerned father recently reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose, seeking advice on how to handle a delicate situation involving his daughter. The father received a lobola letter from his daughter's boyfriend a few months ago, requesting her hand in marriage. However, the father believes that his daughter is not yet ready for marriage and needs more time […]

today05/09/2023

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