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"I fear I might never forgive my late husband for cheating on me:" The Blind Spot

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“I fear I might never forgive my late husband for cheating on me:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Aviz: After her husband passed away, a widow discovered messages from him and other women on his phone. This discovery was so painful that she couldn't even cry at his funeral. His parents have suggested a tombstone unveiling for what would have been his 50th birthday in November, but she is still struggling with the hurt from his infidelity. Anonymous is considering telling her late […]


"My family looks down on my girlfriend because of poor background:" The Blind Spot

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“My family looks down on my girlfriend because of her poor background:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by MART PRODUCTION: A listener recently shared that he has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for a few years and cares deeply for her. Unfortunately, his family disapproves of her because she comes from a less privileged background. He is fed up with his family disrespecting his partner and is considering ending the relationship to protect her from their judgment. Seeking advice from The […]


"I'm scared he will leave if I tell him about no sex before marriage:" The Blind Spot

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“I’m scared he will leave if I tell him about no sex before marriage:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Felipe Silva: A 30-year-old listener, who is a virgin, recently shared that she has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for six months and everything seems to be going well. She has told him that she wants to wait until marriage before having sex, but she is worried that he might lose patience.  "Uncle T, I am a 30-year-old virgin. I have been with […]


"My wife wants to further her studies, but I don't think she'll pass:" The Blind Spot

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“My wife wants to further her studies, but I don’t think she’ll pass:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image" Pexels: Monnivhoir Aymar Kouamé A concerned listener recently shared a story about his wife's decision to go back to school. Last year, she enrolled to further her studies, and despite his doubts, he was very supportive. However, when her results came out and she failed all her modules, he questioned her commitment. This year, she enrolled again, but he is no longer supportive because he doesn't believe […]


"My boyfriend refuses couples therapy; he says it's for married couples, not for Mjolo"

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“My boyfriend refuses couples therapy; he says it’s for married couples”

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Jasmine Carter: A listener reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose, sharing that she and her boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately. She suggested couples therapy to help mend their relationship, but her boyfriend is against it. He thinks therapy is only for married couples. She wants to know if she might be overlooking something. "Uncle T, my boyfriend, and […]


"Since getting married, my friend's life revolves around her husband": The Blind Spot

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“Since getting married, my friend’s life revolves around her husband”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Christina Morillo: A listener shares that her friend recently got married, and she is more than happy for her. However, her concern is that since getting married, her friend has made no time for their friendship and is always with her husband. She feels her friend has lost her sense of self, and her life revolves around her husband. Reaching out to "The Best T […]


"My kids do not like my new girlfriend:" The Blind Spot

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“My kids do not like my new girlfriend:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Ketut Subiyanto: A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose, seeking advice on a delicate situation. This individual, who tragically lost his wife two years ago, has found love again and is genuinely happy. However, his children are not on board with his new love interest, going so far as to give her side-eye and refusing to speak to […]


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“My mom blew her retirement savings and now expects me to clean up the mess”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu A listener shares that her mother, who is in her sixties, was retrenched in 2022 and spent all her pension money recklessly. Instead of saving and using it wisely, she splurged. Fast forward to 2024; she has nothing left and now expects the listener, her daughter, to pick up the pieces. Seeking advice from "The Best T in the City," the listener wonders if she's being selfish for […]


Thabiso Mokethi on daughter's latest achievement


Thabiso Mokethi beams with pride over daughter’s latest achievement

Katlego Sekhu Image: Instagram/@thabisomokhethi Thabiso Mokhetji, a former actor on Generations, is beaming with pride as a dad. This year, his daughter is in Grade 12 and has achieved the impressive feat of being elected as a prefect and head of culture at her school. "As parents, we couldn’t be prouder. This child has shown leadership qualities from an early age and is truly a pleasure to parent. Her recent […]



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POPIA ActTo promote the protection of personal information processed by public and private bodies; to introduce certain conditions so as to establish minimum requirements for the processing of personal information; to provide for the establishment of an Information Regulator to exercise certain powers and to perform certain duties and functions in terms of this Act and the Promotion of Access to Information Act, 2000; to provide for the issuing of codes of conduct; to provide for the rights of persons regarding unsolicited electronic communications and automated decision making; to regulate the flow of personal information across the borders of the Republic; and to provide for matters connected therewith.


  • section 14 of the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996, provides that everyone has the right to privacy;
  • the right to privacy includes a right to protection against the unlawful collection, retention, dissemination and use of personal information;
  • the State must respect, protect, promote and fulfil the rights in the Bill of Rights;


  • consonant with the constitutional values of democracy and openness, the need for economic and social progress, within the framework of the information society, requires the removal of unnecessary impediments to the free flow of information, including personal information;


  • regulate, in harmony with international standards, the processing of personal information by public and private bodies in a manner that gives effect to the right to privacy subject to justifiable limitations that are aimed at protecting other rights and important interests,
  1. Definitions and Interpretation

1.1.“Personal Information” means information relating to an identifiable, living, natural person and where it is applicable, identifiable, existing juristic person, including all information as defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013. 

1.2  Parliament assented to POPIA on 19 November 2013. The commencement date of section 1Part A of Chapter 5section 112 and section 113 was 11 April 2014. The commencement date of the other sections was 1 July 2020 (with the exception of section 110 and 114(4). The President of South Africa has proclaimed the POPI commencement date to be 1 July 2020.

1.3. “Processing” means the creation, generation, communication, storage, destruction of personal information as more fully defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013.  

1.4. “You” or the “user” means any person who accesses and browses this website for any purpose. 

1.4. “Website” means the website of the KAYA 959 at URL or such other URL as KAYA 959 may choose from time to time.   

  1. Status and Amendments

2.1. KAYA 959 respects your privacy. This privacy policy statement sets out KAYA 959’s information gathering and dissemination practices in respect of the Website. 

2.2. This Privacy Policy governs the processing of personal information provided to KAYA 959 through your use of the Website. 

2.3. Please note that, due to legal and other developments, KAYA 959 may amend these terms and conditions from time to time.  

  1. Processing of Personal Information

3.1. By providing your personal information to KAYA 959 you acknowledge that it has been collected directly from you and consent to its processing by KAYA 959. 

3.2. Where you submit Personal Information (such as name, address, telephone number and email address) via the website (e.g. through completing any online form) the following principles are observed in the processing of that information: 

3.2.1. KAYA 959 will only collect personal information for a purpose consistent with the purpose for which it is required. The specific purpose for which information is 
collected will be apparent from the context in which it is requested. 

3.2.2. KAYA 959 will only process personal information in a manner that is adequate, relevant and not excessive in the context of the purpose for which it is processed. 

3.2.3. Personal information will only be processed for a purpose compatible with that for which it was collected, unless you have agreed to an alternative purpose in writing or KAYA 959 is permitted in terms of national legislation of general application dealing primarily with the protection of personal information. 

3.2.4. KAYA 959 will keep records of all personal Information collected and the specific purpose for which it was collected for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.5. KAYA 959 will not disclose any personal information relating to you to any third party unless your prior written agreement is obtained or KAYA 959 is required to do so by law. 

3.2.6. If personal information is released with your consent KAYA 959 will retain a record of the information released, the third party to which it was released, the reason for the release and the date of release, for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.7. KAYA 959 will destroy or delete any personal information that is no longer needed by KAYA 959 for the purpose it was initially collected, or subsequently processed. 

3.3. Note that, as permitted by the Electronic Communications and Transactions Act 25 of 2002, KAYA 959 may use personal information collected to compile profiles for statistical purposes. No information contained in the profiles or statistics will be able to be linked to any specific user.    

  1. Collection of anonymous data

4.1. KAYA 959 may use standard technology to collect information about the use of this website. This technology is not able to identify individual users but simply allows KAYA 959 to collect statistics. 

4.2. KAYA 959 may utilise temporary or session cookies to keep track of users’ browsing habits. A cookie is a small file that is placed on your hard drive in order to keep a record of your interaction with this website and facilitate user convenience. 

4.2.1. Cookies by themselves will not be used to identify users personally but may be used to compile identified statistics relating to use of services offered or to provide KAYA 959 with feedback on the performance of this website. 

4.2.2. The following classes of information may be collected in respect of users who have enabled cookies: The browser software used; IP address; Date and time of activities while visiting the website; URLs of internal pages visited; and referrers. 

4.3. If you do not wish cookies to be employed to customize your interaction with this website it is possible to alter the manner in which your browser handles cookies. Please note that, if this is done, certain services on this website may not be available. 

  1. Security

5.1. KAYA 959 takes reasonable measures to ensure the security and integrity of information submitted to or collected by this website, but cannot under any circumstances be held liable for any loss or other damage sustained by you as a result of unlawful access to or dissemination of any personal information by a third party. 

  1. Links to other websites

6.1. KAYA 959 has no control over and accepts no responsibility for the privacy practices of any third party websites to which hyperlinks may have been provided and KAYA 959 strongly recommends that you review the privacy policy of any website you visit before using it further. 

  1. Queries

7.1. If you have any queries about this privacy policy please contact us by emailing [email protected]