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‘My husband doesn’t know how to lead our family’ – The Blind Spot

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‘My husband doesn’t know how to lead our family’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image: FreePik/wirestock A frustrated listener recently opened up about her growing disappointment with her husband’s perceived lack of leadership within their family. She expressed that over the past few years, her confidence in his ability to lead has significantly diminished. According to the listener, her mother-in-law frequently exerts control over their relationship, often having the final say and overshadowing her husband. This dynamic has left her feeling undermined […]

today20/01/2025

‘My boyfriend of two years never posts me online:’ The Blind Spot

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‘My boyfriend of two years never posts me online’: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image: FreePik A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City to share her dilemma. She loves her current boyfriend, as he has many great qualities, including his love for family. However, after two years together, he has never posted about her on social media, and she wants to be loved openly. His excuse is that he no longer wishes to share his love life […]

today13/01/2025

"I don't feel needed by my financially independent girlfriend" - The Blind Spot

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“I don’t feel needed by my financially independent girlfriend” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image: FreePik A listener recently shared that he started dating a fiercely independent woman this year, unlike anyone he'd dated before. She is financially stable and has never asked him for anything. While this might seem like he’s hit the jackpot, he admits to feeling useless in the relationship. Because she handles everything on her own, he struggles to see his value in her life. Reaching out to […]

today16/10/2024

I'm uncomfortable with my girlfriend travelling to work with her ex - The Blind Spot

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I’m uncomfortable with my girlfriend travelling to work with her ex – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Alex Green: https://www.pexels.com/photo/upset-black-couple-during-dispute-in-bedroom-5700159/ A listener shares that when he and his partner started dating, she mentioned that she commutes to work with her ex, assuring him there was nothing to worry about. However, months later, he’s starting to feel uneasy about the arrangement, despite her reassurances that nothing is going on. He’s even considering buying a car to avoid the situation altogether. "I have been with […]

today18/09/2024

"My ex from 16 years ago just told me we have a teenage son" - The Blind Spot

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“My ex from 16 years ago just told me we have a teenage son” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Alex Green: https://www.pexels.com/photo/crop-unhappy-black-man-with-headache-on-sofa-at-home-5700140/ A listener reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose, feeling frustrated and confused. He shared that a woman he had a fling with over ten years ago recently contacted him to reveal they have a sixteen-year-old son together. The listener, now married, couldn't understand why she never told him about their child back then. To make matters more complicated, […]

today30/08/2024

“Whenever my fiance and I argue, he brings up the fact that my father was absent”

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“Whenever my fiance and I argue, he brings up the fact that my father was absent” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Liza Summer: https://www.pexels.com/photo/crying-ethnic-female-wiping-tears-with-napkin-6382609/ On the blind spot, one listener recently shared that whenever she and her fiancé argue, he always blames it on her upbringing. She feels that her mother did a fantastic job raising her, but she can't help but wonder if her fiancé has a valid point. Despite her love for her partner, she is hesitant to discuss certain topics with him out of […]

today26/08/2024

“I am 36 and still struggling to find love” – The Blind Spot

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“I am 36 and still struggling to find love” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Yusuf Kayode: https://www.pexels.com/photo/black-and-white-photo-of-a-woman-using-a-laptop-11507606/ A listener in her late 30s recently opened up to The Best T in the City about her struggles with finding love. She believes that part of the problem may be her own doing. Growing up in church, she never made time to socialise and has had negative experiences with church guys. While her potential partner doesn't have to be a churchgoing man, […]

today14/08/2024

“I just found out that my mom is dating my childhood friend” – The Blind Spot

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“I just found out that my mom is dating my childhood friend” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Yan Krukau: https://www.pexels.com/photo/person-laughing-at-a-man-in-white-top-7640450/ A concerned listener recently contacted The Best T in the City to express his frustration. He was shocked to learn that his 55-year-old mom is dating a 38-year-old guy he used to play soccer with. He is seeking advice on how to handle this situation without being disrespectful. "I recently found out that my mother and my childhood friend, from the same street […]

today01/08/2024

"My husband has a tendency of walking out mid-argument"- The Blind Spot

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“My husband has a tendency of walking out mid-argument”- The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Alex Green: https://www.pexels.com/photo/arguing-black-couple-standing-in-living-room-5700208/ A listener has contacted The Best T in the City, seeking advice from other listeners. She says that her husband always walks away when she tries to discuss problems, which leaves many issues unresolved. This frustrates her because they never have a chance to work things out. "My husband has this tendency of walking away when I bring up an issue or when […]

today30/07/2024

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POPIA ActTo promote the protection of personal information processed by public and private bodies; to introduce certain conditions so as to establish minimum requirements for the processing of personal information; to provide for the establishment of an Information Regulator to exercise certain powers and to perform certain duties and functions in terms of this Act and the Promotion of Access to Information Act, 2000; to provide for the issuing of codes of conduct; to provide for the rights of persons regarding unsolicited electronic communications and automated decision making; to regulate the flow of personal information across the borders of the Republic; and to provide for matters connected therewith.

RECOGNISING THAT—

  • section 14 of the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996, provides that everyone has the right to privacy;
  • the right to privacy includes a right to protection against the unlawful collection, retention, dissemination and use of personal information;
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AND BEARING IN MIND THAT—

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AND IN ORDER TO—

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1.2  Parliament assented to POPIA on 19 November 2013. The commencement date of section 1Part A of Chapter 5section 112 and section 113 was 11 April 2014. The commencement date of the other sections was 1 July 2020 (with the exception of section 110 and 114(4). The President of South Africa has proclaimed the POPI commencement date to be 1 July 2020.

 
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3.2.2. KAYA 959 will only process personal information in a manner that is adequate, relevant and not excessive in the context of the purpose for which it is processed. 

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3.2.4. KAYA 959 will keep records of all personal Information collected and the specific purpose for which it was collected for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.5. KAYA 959 will not disclose any personal information relating to you to any third party unless your prior written agreement is obtained or KAYA 959 is required to do so by law. 

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