the blindspot

7 Results / Page 1 of 1

Feel Good

“9 years of marriage, his family still doesn’t recognize our marriage” – Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Many married couples will agree that relationships with in-laws can have their fair share of disagreements, arguments, and problems. But, where do you draw the line? Anonymous reached out to The Best T In the City to find a different view on how to handle her situation with her in-laws who continue to disregard her after years of being married to her husband. "Hi […]


Best T in the City

“My husband wants me to agree to him re-marrying his ex-wife” – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock "My husband wants me to agree to him re-marrying his ex-wife" - The Blindspot Anonymous reached out to The Best T In The City with Tbose for assistance on a matter of her husband's bold request to remarry his ex-wife. She shared how her husband was divorced for 3 years when they met and how her husband yearned to fix things with his ex-wife. […]


Best T in the City

“Was I wrong to buy a new car without consulting my unemployed husband?” : The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Antoni Shkraba: Anonymous's husband has been out of work and staying at home. His wife, who has been the sole breadwinner, bought a car for herself without consulting with him and this has dented their relationship. She wants to know if she is in the wrong. "My husband got fired from his job, meaning I have been the sole breadwinner. Luckily, I earn well, so […]


not sexually compatible

Best T in the City

The Blindspot: “I love an amazing woman but we are not sexually compatible!”

By: Natasha Archary Image: Alex Green Pexels "I met this amazing woman, everything about her is perfect to the T, however we are not sexually compatible. I've tried talking to her to see how we can improve, but she's not the type who likes to talk about sex. I love her but I don't think I can continue with the relationship if things don't get better in the bedroom. Am […]


Best T in the City

“I cheated on my fiancée and the punishment is celibacy for 12 months”: The Blind Spot

By Katlego Sekhu Photo by RODNAE Productions: Anonymous cheated on his fiancée and this left her broken. As part of her healing journey, she suggested they go celibate until their wedding in December. Five months in, Anonymous is feeling sexually frustrated and does not know what to do. "I cheated on my fiance' and I apologised and stopped the cheating. I have been doing all things right to get […]


husband wants to start a business with his retirement package

Best T in the City

“My husband wants to start a business with his retirement package”: The Blindspot

Photo by Kindel Media: By Katlego Sekhu On The Blind Spot this Wednesday, Anonymous is distressed that her husband is not thinking clearly after communicating his plans to resign from his job and start a business. "My husband is frustrated with his job. He feels no one values his time and energy and has hinted that he wants to resign and start his own business with his retirement package. […]


"My partner is upset because I didn't give her money": The Blindspot

Best T in the City

“My partner is upset because I didn’t give her money”: The Blindspot

Photo by Diva Plavalaguna: By Katlego Sekhu On The Blindspot this week, anonymous says his woman is "visibly upset" because he "wasn't able to give her money" and wants to know if he's at fault. "I am a guy who believes in giving his woman money to spoil herself at the end of every month, but this month it's tough because I have a couple of things that I […]



UpComing Shows

DownLoad Our Mobile App

Privacy Policy


POPIA ActTo promote the protection of personal information processed by public and private bodies; to introduce certain conditions so as to establish minimum requirements for the processing of personal information; to provide for the establishment of an Information Regulator to exercise certain powers and to perform certain duties and functions in terms of this Act and the Promotion of Access to Information Act, 2000; to provide for the issuing of codes of conduct; to provide for the rights of persons regarding unsolicited electronic communications and automated decision making; to regulate the flow of personal information across the borders of the Republic; and to provide for matters connected therewith.


  • section 14 of the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996, provides that everyone has the right to privacy;
  • the right to privacy includes a right to protection against the unlawful collection, retention, dissemination and use of personal information;
  • the State must respect, protect, promote and fulfil the rights in the Bill of Rights;


  • consonant with the constitutional values of democracy and openness, the need for economic and social progress, within the framework of the information society, requires the removal of unnecessary impediments to the free flow of information, including personal information;


  • regulate, in harmony with international standards, the processing of personal information by public and private bodies in a manner that gives effect to the right to privacy subject to justifiable limitations that are aimed at protecting other rights and important interests,
  1. Definitions and Interpretation

1.1.“Personal Information” means information relating to an identifiable, living, natural person and where it is applicable, identifiable, existing juristic person, including all information as defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013. 

1.2  Parliament assented to POPIA on 19 November 2013. The commencement date of section 1Part A of Chapter 5section 112 and section 113 was 11 April 2014. The commencement date of the other sections was 1 July 2020 (with the exception of section 110 and 114(4). The President of South Africa has proclaimed the POPI commencement date to be 1 July 2020.

1.3. “Processing” means the creation, generation, communication, storage, destruction of personal information as more fully defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013.  

1.4. “You” or the “user” means any person who accesses and browses this website for any purpose. 

1.4. “Website” means the website of the KAYA 959 at URL or such other URL as KAYA 959 may choose from time to time.   

  1. Status and Amendments

2.1. KAYA 959 respects your privacy. This privacy policy statement sets out KAYA 959’s information gathering and dissemination practices in respect of the Website. 

2.2. This Privacy Policy governs the processing of personal information provided to KAYA 959 through your use of the Website. 

2.3. Please note that, due to legal and other developments, KAYA 959 may amend these terms and conditions from time to time.  

  1. Processing of Personal Information

3.1. By providing your personal information to KAYA 959 you acknowledge that it has been collected directly from you and consent to its processing by KAYA 959. 

3.2. Where you submit Personal Information (such as name, address, telephone number and email address) via the website (e.g. through completing any online form) the following principles are observed in the processing of that information: 

3.2.1. KAYA 959 will only collect personal information for a purpose consistent with the purpose for which it is required. The specific purpose for which information is 
collected will be apparent from the context in which it is requested. 

3.2.2. KAYA 959 will only process personal information in a manner that is adequate, relevant and not excessive in the context of the purpose for which it is processed. 

3.2.3. Personal information will only be processed for a purpose compatible with that for which it was collected, unless you have agreed to an alternative purpose in writing or KAYA 959 is permitted in terms of national legislation of general application dealing primarily with the protection of personal information. 

3.2.4. KAYA 959 will keep records of all personal Information collected and the specific purpose for which it was collected for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.5. KAYA 959 will not disclose any personal information relating to you to any third party unless your prior written agreement is obtained or KAYA 959 is required to do so by law. 

3.2.6. If personal information is released with your consent KAYA 959 will retain a record of the information released, the third party to which it was released, the reason for the release and the date of release, for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.7. KAYA 959 will destroy or delete any personal information that is no longer needed by KAYA 959 for the purpose it was initially collected, or subsequently processed. 

3.3. Note that, as permitted by the Electronic Communications and Transactions Act 25 of 2002, KAYA 959 may use personal information collected to compile profiles for statistical purposes. No information contained in the profiles or statistics will be able to be linked to any specific user.    

  1. Collection of anonymous data

4.1. KAYA 959 may use standard technology to collect information about the use of this website. This technology is not able to identify individual users but simply allows KAYA 959 to collect statistics. 

4.2. KAYA 959 may utilise temporary or session cookies to keep track of users’ browsing habits. A cookie is a small file that is placed on your hard drive in order to keep a record of your interaction with this website and facilitate user convenience. 

4.2.1. Cookies by themselves will not be used to identify users personally but may be used to compile identified statistics relating to use of services offered or to provide KAYA 959 with feedback on the performance of this website. 

4.2.2. The following classes of information may be collected in respect of users who have enabled cookies: The browser software used; IP address; Date and time of activities while visiting the website; URLs of internal pages visited; and referrers. 

4.3. If you do not wish cookies to be employed to customize your interaction with this website it is possible to alter the manner in which your browser handles cookies. Please note that, if this is done, certain services on this website may not be available. 

  1. Security

5.1. KAYA 959 takes reasonable measures to ensure the security and integrity of information submitted to or collected by this website, but cannot under any circumstances be held liable for any loss or other damage sustained by you as a result of unlawful access to or dissemination of any personal information by a third party. 

  1. Links to other websites

6.1. KAYA 959 has no control over and accepts no responsibility for the privacy practices of any third party websites to which hyperlinks may have been provided and KAYA 959 strongly recommends that you review the privacy policy of any website you visit before using it further. 

  1. Queries

7.1. If you have any queries about this privacy policy please contact us by emailing [email protected]