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“My husband wants me to agree to him re-marrying his ex-wife” – The Blindspot
Anonymous reached out to The Best T In The City with Tbose for assistance on a matter of her husband’s bold request to remarry his ex-wife. She shared how her husband was divorced for 3 years when they met and how her husband yearned to fix things with his ex-wife.
“Uncle T, when I met my husband, he had been divorced for 3 years. A month ago, he sat me down and told me him and his ex-wife have decided to work on things. As I was dealing with the shock, he then told me that he has no intention of divorcing me instead he will remarry her, and she will be Mamkhulu and I will be Mamcane.
I asked him why am I the second wife when we are already married and he says his ex-wife has always been the leading lady in his life, they got married young and made mistakes, but they are now mature and want to give it another shot. I am still in disbelief and feel betrayed but what hurts more is how now I am reduced to being number 2.
I love my husband and would have never imagined we would find ourselves here. Is it because I don’t work, and he is doing well to maintain me, and this left me in a compromised position? He has even given me 3 months to decide if I am in or out, as he is definitely re-marrying his ex-wife. If i leave, where do I start? Should i just suck it up and be wife number 2?
My heart says I should stay but my mind is not having it.”
Anonymous
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