By Katlego Sekhu

Anonymous cheated on his fiancée and this left her broken. As part of her healing journey, she suggested they go celibate until their wedding in December. Five months in, Anonymous is feeling sexually frustrated and does not know what to do.
“I cheated on my fiance’ and I apologised and stopped the cheating. I have been doing all things right to get her trust back. She decided that we should go celibate until our wedding which will be this December. I felt that this is a punishment and it has been five months now. I am genuinely sexually frustrated.
“I saw what the cheating did to her and I don’t want to do it again. Do I sit her down and explain what I’m going through or do I just continue to respect her wishes? Please help,” pleaded Anonymous in Wednesday’s Blind Spot on The Best T in the City.
One listener believes Anonymous’s fiancee’ is playing with fire. “He must sit her down and tell her because in the marriage she is going to do the same thing. He has asked for forgiveness,” she said.
Our newsreader, Nosipho Radebe believes the punishment could have been worse.
“I feel like he’s having it easy. It could have been worse. He is complaining about just 5 months of celibacy for cheating.”
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