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'I love my wife, but must I compete with her sister for her time?' - The Blind Spot

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‘I love my wife, but must I compete with her sister for her time?’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous is feeling neglected in his marriage Katlego Sekhu Image: pexels-diva-plavalaguna A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City to share his frustration about his wife spending most of her time at her sister’s house. The couple has been married for a year, but according to him, his wife has not made time to bond at home, choosing instead to spend her afternoons with her sister […]

today04/09/2025

‘As a pastor’s wife, I’m bleeding silently while he heals others’ - The Blind Spot

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‘As a pastor’s wife, I’m bleeding silently while he heals others’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous feels that her husband has neglected their marriage Katlego Sekhu Image by katemangostar on Freepik Anonymous shares that her husband, a pastor, is well respected in his church and has counselled many couples. However, their own marriage is facing difficulties, and she suggested they seek guidance from the church elders. Her husband did not take this well. He explained that many people look up to him, and he feels […]

today02/09/2025

‘My wife used our home to hide her friend’s affair’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My wife used our home to hide her friend’s affair’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous is left questioning whether he can trust his wife Katlego Sekhu Photo by Diva Plavalaguna: https://www.pexels.com/photo/couple-in-robes-arguing-5710386/ A worried listener revealed that his wife has been hiding her friend’s affair right under his nose. The wife’s friend would often leave her car at their house, claiming it was safer there whenever she was in the neighbourhood to visit her “family.” During a recent boys’ night out, Anonymous discovered that the […]

today27/08/2025

‘My husband never defends me, yet he expects me to honour his family’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My husband never defends me, yet he expects me to honour his family’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous shares that her mother-in-law kicked her out when she was down and out Katlego Sekhu Photo by Pavel Danilyuk: https://www.pexels.com/photo/man-taking-care-of-a-woman-6753299/ A listener shared that her mother-in-law kicked her out after her husband spent all of his money.  She managed to rent a backroom and lived there while rebuilding her life. Recently, she was approved for a bond and wanted to hold a small thanksgiving ceremony to celebrate her achievement. […]

today25/08/2025

‘I love my stepkids, but should they be on my life policy too?’ – The Blind Spot

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‘I love my stepkids, but should they be on my life policy too?’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous shares his dilemma with The Best T in the City with Tbose Katlego Sekhu Image by mego-studio on Freepik Anonymous shared that after his divorce, he remarried. His current wife has two children from a previous relationship, and he also has two children of his own. He says he loves his stepchildren as though they were his own and is now considering including them in his life policies. However, […]

today21/08/2025

‘My wife was promoted by my uncle, and I was the last to know’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My wife was promoted by my uncle, and I was the last to know’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by freepik Anonymous shares that after his wife resigned from her toxic job, he spoke to his uncle, who owns several businesses, and helped her secure a role within one of them. Some months later, he recently discovered in a staff meeting that she had been promoted, yet she had never mentioned anything about it at home. Now, with a baby on the way, he cannot shake […]

today19/08/2025

‘I keep proving my love to him, but he still thinks I’ll walk away’ - The Blind Spot

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‘I keep proving my love to him, but he still thinks I’ll walk away’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by rawpixel.com on Freepik A listener has shared that her husband was involved in a serious car accident, which left him with a permanent injury to his leg. Since the accident, she says he has become increasingly insecure and fears that she might leave him. He is currently saving for lobola and has mentioned the possibility of having another child. She feels she is not ready, but […]

today18/08/2025

'My husband says it's unfair that he's paying for my son and his unemployed father still gets visitation rights' – The Blind Spot

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‘My husband says it’s unfair that he’s paying for my son and his unemployed father still gets visitation rights’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous' dilemma is the conflict between her husband's resentment over financially supporting her son while the boy visits his non-contributing biological father. Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Anonymous' dilemma centers on a conflict between her husband's feelings and her own sense of fairness toward her ex-partner. Her husband feels it's unjust that he financially supports her son while the boy continues to visit his biological father, who is currently […]

today07/08/2025

'My wife has been bringing groceries from her parents' house since my pay cut' – The Blind Spot

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‘My wife has been bringing groceries from her parents’ house since my pay cut’ – The Blind Spot

Zuko Komisa An anonymous husband, feeling emasculated, is struggling with his in-laws' financial assistance. Since losing his job and taking a significant pay cut, his wife, who comes from a wealthy background, has turned to her parents for support. This includes having her father pay for her university studies and regularly receiving groceries and other supplies from her mother. While he appreciates the help during a difficult time, the husband […]

today31/07/2025

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