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‘I’m jealous of how close my daughter is to her stepmother’ – The Blind Spot
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‘I’m jealous of how close my daughter is to her stepmother’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by wirestock on Freepik A Best T in the City listener shares that she married young, but after divorcing her husband, their daughter remained in his care. Her ex-husband later remarried, and the daughter continued living with him and his wife. Over time, she developed a close bond with the stepmother, but this relationship has stirred feelings of jealousy. Now, she hopes to rebuild a connection with […]

today10/06/2025

‘My daughter is always irritated with her little sister’ – The Blind Spot
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‘My daughter is always irritated with her little sister’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by stefamerpik on Freepik A listener recently shared her concerns about her eldest daughter, who she says is introverted just like her father. The teenager doesn’t have many friends, spends most of her time alone, and shows little interest in bonding with her younger sister. While the mother, who wrote in anonymously, is proud of her daughter’s academic achievements, she worries that her tendency to isolate herself […]

today04/06/2025

'Should I tell the rest of the family that my uncle is hiding a secret family' - The Blindspot
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‘Should I tell the rest of the family that my uncle is hiding a secret second family?’ – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Anonymous is struggling with a significant ethical dilemma after discovering his uncle's secret second family. The core issue revolves around the conflict between loyalty to his uncle, who helped him get a job and swore him to secrecy, and his loyalty to the rest of his family, particularly his aunt and cousins, who are unaware of this hidden life. He fears the potential fallout […]

today20/05/2025

'Should I distance myself from my son and the maternal family for my own peace?' – The Blind Spot
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‘Should I distance myself from my son and the maternal family for my own peace?’ – The Blind Spot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Anonymous is feeling incredibly burdened and emotionally drained by the constant demands and criticisms from his son's mother and grandmother. Despite consistently providing financial support for his son's upbringing and even his mother's lifestyle for years, he now faces insults and accusations of being useless since losing his job and being unable to maintain the same level of financial contribution. Anonymous reached out to […]

today14/05/2025

'My husband and his baby mama borrow each other money –The Blind Spot
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‘My husband and his baby mama borrow each other money’ –The Blind Spot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Anonymous finds herself in a difficult position, torn between acknowledging the positive co-parenting dynamic between her husband and his ex, and her deep discomfort with their financial exchanges. While she appreciates the collaborative effort in raising their children, the revelation that they lend each other money has triggered feelings of insecurity and a fear of potential disrespect. "Uncle T, a few weeks ago, I […]

today13/05/2025

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‘My wife is not slowing down with her hobbies, despite us having two kids’ – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Anonymous recently reached out to The Best T In The City to share that he is having a growing tension between admiring his wife's vibrant life and wishing for more of her presence at home, especially now with two young children. He is now grappling with whether it would be unfair to ask her to scale back her personal hobbies and interests for the […]

today12/05/2025

'My ex-husband's new wife wants me to speak to her directly on matters of the kids' - The Blind Spot
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‘My ex-husband’s new wife wants me to speak to her directly on matters of the kids’ – The Blind Spot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Anonymous is facing a dilemma stemming from her ex-husband's recent remarriage. For seven years post-divorce, she has communicated solely with her former mother-in-law about their children, a system that has functioned smoothly. However, her ex-husband's new wife is reportedly uncomfortable with this arrangement and wants Anonymous to communicate directly with her instead. While her family advises cooperation for the children's sake, Anonymous remains steadfast […]

today16/04/2025

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“Is he wrong for buying his girlfriend’s bestie the same bag?”- The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock In relationships, it is important to consider what your partner might really be feeling before making a decision to buy anything for their close friends. It's wise to also look at your relationship dynamics, the specific situation, and your partner's feelings before making such decisions. This is what Anonymous is concerned about, as his guy friend went ahead and succumbed to his partner's bestie's […]

today29/11/2024

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“She insists I should buy her child food on our second date” – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock When dating a woman with a child, it's important to establish clear boundaries to ensure a healthy relationship for everyone involved. This is very important as discussing your willingness to contribute to shared expenses or date-related activities. Annonymous struggled with this in his previous second date with a woman, who looked at her with disgust when he refused to pay for take-aways for his […]

today20/11/2024

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1.2  Parliament assented to POPIA on 19 November 2013. The commencement date of section 1, Part A of Chapter 5, section 112 and section 113 was 11 April 2014. The commencement date of the other sections was 1 July 2020 (with the exception of section 110 and 114(4). The President of South Africa has proclaimed the POPI commencement date to be 1 July 2020.

 
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