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“Ever since we got married, she has become controlling:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu A concerned listener shares that ever since he and his wife got married, she has turned into a control freak. He says the situation has become so bad that she wants to decide when and where he goes out. After sitting her down with hopes of finding a middle ground, she refuses to barge. By sharing his predicament with fellow Best T in the City listeners, he wonders […]


"I'm scared he will leave if I tell him about no sex before marriage:" The Blind Spot

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“I’m scared he will leave if I tell him about no sex before marriage:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Felipe Silva: A 30-year-old listener, who is a virgin, recently shared that she has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for six months and everything seems to be going well. She has told him that she wants to wait until marriage before having sex, but she is worried that he might lose patience.  "Uncle T, I am a 30-year-old virgin. I have been with […]


"My wife wants to further her studies, but I don't think she'll pass:" The Blind Spot

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“My wife wants to further her studies, but I don’t think she’ll pass:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image" Pexels: Monnivhoir Aymar Kouamé A concerned listener recently shared a story about his wife's decision to go back to school. Last year, she enrolled to further her studies, and despite his doubts, he was very supportive. However, when her results came out and she failed all her modules, he questioned her commitment. This year, she enrolled again, but he is no longer supportive because he doesn't believe […]


"My boyfriend refuses couples therapy; he says it's for married couples, not for Mjolo"

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“My boyfriend refuses couples therapy; he says it’s for married couples”

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Jasmine Carter: A listener reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose, sharing that she and her boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately. She suggested couples therapy to help mend their relationship, but her boyfriend is against it. He thinks therapy is only for married couples. She wants to know if she might be overlooking something. "Uncle T, my boyfriend, and […]


"My husband is worried that I won't have enough time for him if I go back to school"

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“My husband is worried that I won’t have enough time for him if I go back to school”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Alex Green: Three years ago, a listener told her husband that she wanted to go back to school. He suggested that they have one more child to complete their family, and then she'll go back to school. By the grace of God, they were blessed with a bouncing baby. However, when she revisited the topic a year later, her husband wasn't supportive of her going […]


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“My girlfriend is upset because I’m still supporting an ex’s child”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Black couple having an argument A troubled listener recently reached out to the Best T in the City, seeking advice after experiencing a fallout with his current partner over his support for his ex's child. He believes there is nothing wrong with this, as he practically raised the child and couldn't abandon her just because he and his ex broke up. He also mentioned that his ex doesn't […]


"I discovered lingerie in my teen daughter's bag:" The Blind Spot 

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“I found lingerie in my teen daughter’s bag:” The Blind Spot 

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Lia Castro: A concerned mother, who has opted to remain anonymous, recently discovered lingerie in her teenage daughter's deliveries. This discovery has raised concerns about her daughter's activities. She is eager to address this matter with her daughter but is apprehensive that her daughter might see this as an invasion of her privacy. "My 18-year-old has been receiving deliveries of various school supplies and clothing […]


Husband gets vasectomy without wife's knowledge: The Blind Spot

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“My wife is against moving into my parents’ home in order to cut living expenses” : The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu A frustrated listener, who's on the verge of losing his house, has reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose for some advice. This listener, who happens to be a husband, has suggested to his wife that they should move into his parents' vacant house and rent out their own home for some extra income. However, the wife is against the idea of moving into […]


A son's decision to change churches sparks tension within family: The Blind Spot

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A son’s decision to change churches sparks tension within family: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by August de Richelieu: After leaving the church he grew up attending and joining a new one, Anonymous has experienced a major rift with his family. The situation has escalated to the point where his parents have issued a threat to cut him off if he doesn't return home this weekend to participate in a church gathering. Anonymous fails to comprehend the reason for all the […]



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POPIA ActTo promote the protection of personal information processed by public and private bodies; to introduce certain conditions so as to establish minimum requirements for the processing of personal information; to provide for the establishment of an Information Regulator to exercise certain powers and to perform certain duties and functions in terms of this Act and the Promotion of Access to Information Act, 2000; to provide for the issuing of codes of conduct; to provide for the rights of persons regarding unsolicited electronic communications and automated decision making; to regulate the flow of personal information across the borders of the Republic; and to provide for matters connected therewith.


  • section 14 of the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996, provides that everyone has the right to privacy;
  • the right to privacy includes a right to protection against the unlawful collection, retention, dissemination and use of personal information;
  • the State must respect, protect, promote and fulfil the rights in the Bill of Rights;


  • consonant with the constitutional values of democracy and openness, the need for economic and social progress, within the framework of the information society, requires the removal of unnecessary impediments to the free flow of information, including personal information;


  • regulate, in harmony with international standards, the processing of personal information by public and private bodies in a manner that gives effect to the right to privacy subject to justifiable limitations that are aimed at protecting other rights and important interests,
  1. Definitions and Interpretation

1.1.“Personal Information” means information relating to an identifiable, living, natural person and where it is applicable, identifiable, existing juristic person, including all information as defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013. 

1.2  Parliament assented to POPIA on 19 November 2013. The commencement date of section 1Part A of Chapter 5section 112 and section 113 was 11 April 2014. The commencement date of the other sections was 1 July 2020 (with the exception of section 110 and 114(4). The President of South Africa has proclaimed the POPI commencement date to be 1 July 2020.

1.3. “Processing” means the creation, generation, communication, storage, destruction of personal information as more fully defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013.  

1.4. “You” or the “user” means any person who accesses and browses this website for any purpose. 

1.4. “Website” means the website of the KAYA 959 at URL or such other URL as KAYA 959 may choose from time to time.   

  1. Status and Amendments

2.1. KAYA 959 respects your privacy. This privacy policy statement sets out KAYA 959’s information gathering and dissemination practices in respect of the Website. 

2.2. This Privacy Policy governs the processing of personal information provided to KAYA 959 through your use of the Website. 

2.3. Please note that, due to legal and other developments, KAYA 959 may amend these terms and conditions from time to time.  

  1. Processing of Personal Information

3.1. By providing your personal information to KAYA 959 you acknowledge that it has been collected directly from you and consent to its processing by KAYA 959. 

3.2. Where you submit Personal Information (such as name, address, telephone number and email address) via the website (e.g. through completing any online form) the following principles are observed in the processing of that information: 

3.2.1. KAYA 959 will only collect personal information for a purpose consistent with the purpose for which it is required. The specific purpose for which information is 
collected will be apparent from the context in which it is requested. 

3.2.2. KAYA 959 will only process personal information in a manner that is adequate, relevant and not excessive in the context of the purpose for which it is processed. 

3.2.3. Personal information will only be processed for a purpose compatible with that for which it was collected, unless you have agreed to an alternative purpose in writing or KAYA 959 is permitted in terms of national legislation of general application dealing primarily with the protection of personal information. 

3.2.4. KAYA 959 will keep records of all personal Information collected and the specific purpose for which it was collected for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.5. KAYA 959 will not disclose any personal information relating to you to any third party unless your prior written agreement is obtained or KAYA 959 is required to do so by law. 

3.2.6. If personal information is released with your consent KAYA 959 will retain a record of the information released, the third party to which it was released, the reason for the release and the date of release, for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.7. KAYA 959 will destroy or delete any personal information that is no longer needed by KAYA 959 for the purpose it was initially collected, or subsequently processed. 

3.3. Note that, as permitted by the Electronic Communications and Transactions Act 25 of 2002, KAYA 959 may use personal information collected to compile profiles for statistical purposes. No information contained in the profiles or statistics will be able to be linked to any specific user.    

  1. Collection of anonymous data

4.1. KAYA 959 may use standard technology to collect information about the use of this website. This technology is not able to identify individual users but simply allows KAYA 959 to collect statistics. 

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4.2.2. The following classes of information may be collected in respect of users who have enabled cookies: The browser software used; IP address; Date and time of activities while visiting the website; URLs of internal pages visited; and referrers. 

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  1. Security

5.1. KAYA 959 takes reasonable measures to ensure the security and integrity of information submitted to or collected by this website, but cannot under any circumstances be held liable for any loss or other damage sustained by you as a result of unlawful access to or dissemination of any personal information by a third party. 

  1. Links to other websites

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  1. Queries

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