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‘My boyfriend never mentions me in his future plans:’ The Blind Spot

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‘My boyfriend never mentions me in his future plans’: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image: FreePik A listener recently shared that she has been in a relationship for a year and is deeply in love with her partner. However, she’s concerned because he never mentions her in his future plans. He has even expressed a desire to move overseas for a fresh start, raising questions about his intentions. Now, she wonders if this might be his way of hinting that it’s time […]

today17/01/2025

‘Mom gets defensive whenever I ask about my biological dad:’ The Blind Spot

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‘Mom gets defensive whenever I ask about my biological dad’: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image: FreePik A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose to share her heartfelt story of grief and family struggles. She revealed that she and her two siblings have different fathers, and her biological father's absence has left her feeling like an outsider within her own family. Whenever she tried to talk to her mother about her father, the conversation would turn […]

today15/01/2025

‘My boyfriend of two years never posts me online:’ The Blind Spot

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‘My boyfriend of two years never posts me online’: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image: FreePik A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City to share her dilemma. She loves her current boyfriend, as he has many great qualities, including his love for family. However, after two years together, he has never posted about her on social media, and she wants to be loved openly. His excuse is that he no longer wishes to share his love life […]

today13/01/2025

"My wife is putting pressure on me to move to the suburbs" - The Blind Spot

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“My wife is putting pressure on me to move to the suburbs” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Black couple having an argument A listener shares that during the COVID-19 pandemic, he lost his job and had to downgrade his lifestyle. Last year, he managed to secure a well-paying job, but ever since, his wife has been putting pressure on him to relocate to the suburbs and upgrade their lifestyle. The listener feels this may not be the wisest decision. Moving back to the township allowed […]

today09/12/2024

"How do I tell my partner that I don't want kids?" - The Blind Spot

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“How do I tell my partner that I don’t want kids?” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image: FreePik A listener shares that her first pregnancy was a traumatic experience. The father of her child left her, forcing her to navigate the journey alone while also caring for her siblings. Recently, she's found a new love interest and things have been going well. However, he desires children, while she's hesitant due to the trauma of her first pregnancy. She's unsure how to broach this sensitive […]

today14/11/2024

"I'm concerned that my girlfriend doesn't speak to her family" - The Blind Spot

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“I’m concerned that my girlfriend doesn’t speak to her family” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image: Free Pick A listener has expressed concern about his girlfriend's strained relationship with her family. Despite being together for ten years, she remains estranged from her mother and sister. This has raised concerns for the listener, particularly as he values strong family ties and is planning to pay lobola. He wonders if this could potentially impact their future together, as family plays a significant in his life. […]

today12/11/2024

"My girlfriend's baby daddy tends to show up at odd hours" - The Blind Spot

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“My girlfriend’s baby daddy tends to show up at odd hours” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu "My girlfriend's baby daddy tends to show up at odd hours" - The Blind Spot A listener recently shared with The Best T in the City that after his girlfriend and her son moved in, he encountered difficulties with the child's father. The father has a habit of showing up at odd hours, often without prior notice. His disrespectful behaviour, such as honking loudly at the gate, has […]

today04/11/2024

"My girlfriend struggles to get along with my kids" - The Blind Spot

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“My girlfriend struggles to get along with my kids” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Keira Burton: https://www.pexels.com/photo/faceless-multiethnic-couple-having-argument-with-each-other-in-street-6147272/ A listener recently shared that he entrusted his children to his girlfriend's care during the September school holidays, marking her first extended babysitting experience. Unfortunately, the arrangement didn't go as smoothly as anticipated. The children complained about their girlfriend's lack of attention, while she felt they were being unnecessarily difficult. This conflicting perspective has left the listener questioning the dynamics of the situation […]

today01/11/2024

I love my boyfriend but I am not physically attracted to him - The Blind Spot

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“I love my boyfriend but I am not physically attracted to him” – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image: FreePick A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose to share her dilemma. After taking a year-long break from dating to focus on personal growth, she reconnected with an ex-boyfriend. While he understands her love language and shares a similar vision for the future, she struggles with physical attraction. The listener is caught between giving the relationship a chance, hoping that […]

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POPIA ActTo promote the protection of personal information processed by public and private bodies; to introduce certain conditions so as to establish minimum requirements for the processing of personal information; to provide for the establishment of an Information Regulator to exercise certain powers and to perform certain duties and functions in terms of this Act and the Promotion of Access to Information Act, 2000; to provide for the issuing of codes of conduct; to provide for the rights of persons regarding unsolicited electronic communications and automated decision making; to regulate the flow of personal information across the borders of the Republic; and to provide for matters connected therewith.

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