Is there something wrong if a woman just wants the wedding and not the marriage? If you look at it you’ll see that for years it was believed a woman must go to school, get a job, get married, and then have kids. However, times have changed and some women just want to experience the big wedding day and not necessarily the marriage.
Relationship dynamics in 2021 is vastly different to what it was 50 years ago.
Women are playing a larger role in the workforce than ever before, technology has flipped modern dating on its head, and we’re living a lot more for the here and now.
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The Best T In the City with Tbose asked Kaya 959 listeners if there’s anything wrong if a woman just wants the wedding and not the marriage?
Listen to the full conversation here:
Many make the decision to opt merely for a weeding and not the wedding cause they know how it all ends. The truth is people grow apart, they grow comfortable, and they get bored. It’s just how humans work.
Statistics indicate that approximately one third of all marriages end in divorce. If anything, we should be congratulated for recognising the warning signs and preventing future upheaval.
I know a guy who got married to his then gf becoz his father’s will said he will only receive the money and the house after 2 years of marriage…his happily divorced now with machankura💰💰💰💰I feel sorry for the girl though 🙆♀️
— UCL Winner 20/21💙 (@MKatlegoTsele) September 14, 2021
Aowa tbose,batho abano tlohela, you cant have a weddding day without being in a marriage, remember on a wedding day, you make vows,amongst them being “till death do us apart”, so onyala/nyalwa byang then after omong oboela at his/her own place after? #SheWantsAWeddingNotMarriage
— Phindile Maphanga (@La_Maphanga) September 14, 2021
@tboseZA I want the whole wedding experience, I have everything worked out in my head and the playlist has already been drafted, the only thing missing is the man who’s as crazy as me to pull it off. #SheWantsTheWeddingNotMarriage
— #AriesSeason (@miss_TeeS1) September 14, 2021
90 percent of our Sisters they only want show off with someone’s son money #SheWantsAWeddingNotMarriage pic.twitter.com/J7DA0Qs52Q
— Tshepo Segodi (@tshepo_segodi) September 14, 2021
But I’ve been saying I’ll wear the dress walk half way down the aisle, so that everyone sees me, then turn run away and go on the honeymoon alone. Even my friends know… #SheWantsAWeddingNotMarriage pic.twitter.com/kngq8gSDmg
— Inenekazi 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 (@Inenekazi1) September 14, 2021
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Kaya 959 listeners also shared what they think about the idea of merely having a wedding and not being married:
[3 TSpoons] On #SheWantsTheWeddingNotMarriage
🥄 To Have Her Day
🥄 To Please Her Parents
🥄 To Rub It In#TheBestTInTheCity pic.twitter.com/mUuif2Rggi
— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) September 14, 2021
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