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“It’s been two years living together, I don’t want to marry my baby mama.” – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock They always say marriage is a journey you shouldn't take lightly, and that it is a decision you must take when you are ready and when you want to take it. That is the case with Anonymous, who is having a back-and-forth with the mother of his child who he has been living with for two years. He doesn't want to be married but […]


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“My mother-in-law doesn’t want to embrace my child from my previous relationship”- The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Having a perfect relationship with your in-laws is sometimes a very big challenge, especially if you enter marriage having your children. Anonymous reached out to the Best T In the City to share her dilemma, explaining that she has been struggling with how her mother-in-law treats her first child from her previous relationship different from the other kids she has with her husband. "Uncle […]


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“I am a widow with 3 kids, the father of my first child wants me to be his second wife” – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Anonymous has a marriage proposal she is contemplating, but something is unsettling about the decision considering that the father of his child has not made his current wife know about it. She reached out to The Best T in The City with her dilemma, saying that he has known him since she was 16 years old, and is really considering the proposal, but her […]


"I'm scared he will leave if I tell him about no sex before marriage:" The Blind Spot

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“I’m scared he will leave if I tell him about no sex before marriage:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Felipe Silva: A 30-year-old listener, who is a virgin, recently shared that she has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for six months and everything seems to be going well. She has told him that she wants to wait until marriage before having sex, but she is worried that he might lose patience.  "Uncle T, I am a 30-year-old virgin. I have been with […]


sizwe's date, kaya 959 listener seipati,


WATCH: Inside Sizwe’s date with Seipati

She asked for coffee and got so much more! With it being leap year (and while sharing her radio love story on The Best T in The City), Seipati took the plunge and asked Tbose to hook her up with Sizwe for a date. To everyone's surprise, he said YES. While Seipati's initial request was for coffee, the Kaya 959 team said, hold our headphones, let's go all out! The […]


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“My mom blew her retirement savings and now expects me to clean up the mess”: The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu A listener shares that her mother, who is in her sixties, was retrenched in 2022 and spent all her pension money recklessly. Instead of saving and using it wisely, she splurged. Fast forward to 2024; she has nothing left and now expects the listener, her daughter, to pick up the pieces. Seeking advice from "The Best T in the City," the listener wonders if she's being selfish for […]


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‘My fiancé is mad I told her another woman hit on me’ – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa 'My fiancé is mad I told her another woman hit on me' - The Blindspot. There are moments in a relationship where you make mistakes even though you have only good intentions. This is usually because of oversharing. In a relationship, oversharing is when you tell your partner too many details or personal information that they might find uncomfortable. Though individuals tend to overshare to build intimacy or […]


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“My husband is angry I suggested we send 50% less money to his parents” – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa "My husband is angry I suggested we send 50% less money to his parents" - The Blindspot. Finances in a relationship can complicate a relationship, especially if there is a loss of income and the couple can see eye to eye on the way forward. We can all agree that our parents are our greatest gifts, however in situations when the couple's income is stretched, what becomes of […]


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“My husband wants a divorce after 31 years, but wants us to stay in the same house for the kids” – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Adobe Stock "My husband wants a divorce after 31 years, but wants us to stay in the same house for the kids" - The Blindspot. There are many complications when it comes to divorce especially when there's property and children involved. It is significant to remember that in a community of property marriage, the couple's assets are part of the joint estate and have to be divided upon […]



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Privacy Policy


POPIA ActTo promote the protection of personal information processed by public and private bodies; to introduce certain conditions so as to establish minimum requirements for the processing of personal information; to provide for the establishment of an Information Regulator to exercise certain powers and to perform certain duties and functions in terms of this Act and the Promotion of Access to Information Act, 2000; to provide for the issuing of codes of conduct; to provide for the rights of persons regarding unsolicited electronic communications and automated decision making; to regulate the flow of personal information across the borders of the Republic; and to provide for matters connected therewith.


  • section 14 of the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996, provides that everyone has the right to privacy;
  • the right to privacy includes a right to protection against the unlawful collection, retention, dissemination and use of personal information;
  • the State must respect, protect, promote and fulfil the rights in the Bill of Rights;


  • consonant with the constitutional values of democracy and openness, the need for economic and social progress, within the framework of the information society, requires the removal of unnecessary impediments to the free flow of information, including personal information;


  • regulate, in harmony with international standards, the processing of personal information by public and private bodies in a manner that gives effect to the right to privacy subject to justifiable limitations that are aimed at protecting other rights and important interests,
  1. Definitions and Interpretation

1.1.“Personal Information” means information relating to an identifiable, living, natural person and where it is applicable, identifiable, existing juristic person, including all information as defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013. 

1.2  Parliament assented to POPIA on 19 November 2013. The commencement date of section 1Part A of Chapter 5section 112 and section 113 was 11 April 2014. The commencement date of the other sections was 1 July 2020 (with the exception of section 110 and 114(4). The President of South Africa has proclaimed the POPI commencement date to be 1 July 2020.

1.3. “Processing” means the creation, generation, communication, storage, destruction of personal information as more fully defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013.  

1.4. “You” or the “user” means any person who accesses and browses this website for any purpose. 

1.4. “Website” means the website of the KAYA 959 at URL or such other URL as KAYA 959 may choose from time to time.   

  1. Status and Amendments

2.1. KAYA 959 respects your privacy. This privacy policy statement sets out KAYA 959’s information gathering and dissemination practices in respect of the Website. 

2.2. This Privacy Policy governs the processing of personal information provided to KAYA 959 through your use of the Website. 

2.3. Please note that, due to legal and other developments, KAYA 959 may amend these terms and conditions from time to time.  

  1. Processing of Personal Information

3.1. By providing your personal information to KAYA 959 you acknowledge that it has been collected directly from you and consent to its processing by KAYA 959. 

3.2. Where you submit Personal Information (such as name, address, telephone number and email address) via the website (e.g. through completing any online form) the following principles are observed in the processing of that information: 

3.2.1. KAYA 959 will only collect personal information for a purpose consistent with the purpose for which it is required. The specific purpose for which information is 
collected will be apparent from the context in which it is requested. 

3.2.2. KAYA 959 will only process personal information in a manner that is adequate, relevant and not excessive in the context of the purpose for which it is processed. 

3.2.3. Personal information will only be processed for a purpose compatible with that for which it was collected, unless you have agreed to an alternative purpose in writing or KAYA 959 is permitted in terms of national legislation of general application dealing primarily with the protection of personal information. 

3.2.4. KAYA 959 will keep records of all personal Information collected and the specific purpose for which it was collected for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.5. KAYA 959 will not disclose any personal information relating to you to any third party unless your prior written agreement is obtained or KAYA 959 is required to do so by law. 

3.2.6. If personal information is released with your consent KAYA 959 will retain a record of the information released, the third party to which it was released, the reason for the release and the date of release, for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.7. KAYA 959 will destroy or delete any personal information that is no longer needed by KAYA 959 for the purpose it was initially collected, or subsequently processed. 

3.3. Note that, as permitted by the Electronic Communications and Transactions Act 25 of 2002, KAYA 959 may use personal information collected to compile profiles for statistical purposes. No information contained in the profiles or statistics will be able to be linked to any specific user.    

  1. Collection of anonymous data

4.1. KAYA 959 may use standard technology to collect information about the use of this website. This technology is not able to identify individual users but simply allows KAYA 959 to collect statistics. 

4.2. KAYA 959 may utilise temporary or session cookies to keep track of users’ browsing habits. A cookie is a small file that is placed on your hard drive in order to keep a record of your interaction with this website and facilitate user convenience. 

4.2.1. Cookies by themselves will not be used to identify users personally but may be used to compile identified statistics relating to use of services offered or to provide KAYA 959 with feedback on the performance of this website. 

4.2.2. The following classes of information may be collected in respect of users who have enabled cookies: The browser software used; IP address; Date and time of activities while visiting the website; URLs of internal pages visited; and referrers. 

4.3. If you do not wish cookies to be employed to customize your interaction with this website it is possible to alter the manner in which your browser handles cookies. Please note that, if this is done, certain services on this website may not be available. 

  1. Security

5.1. KAYA 959 takes reasonable measures to ensure the security and integrity of information submitted to or collected by this website, but cannot under any circumstances be held liable for any loss or other damage sustained by you as a result of unlawful access to or dissemination of any personal information by a third party. 

  1. Links to other websites

6.1. KAYA 959 has no control over and accepts no responsibility for the privacy practices of any third party websites to which hyperlinks may have been provided and KAYA 959 strongly recommends that you review the privacy policy of any website you visit before using it further. 

  1. Queries

7.1. If you have any queries about this privacy policy please contact us by emailing [email protected]