By: Natasha Archary

A recent clip between David and Victoria Beckham sparked the Kaya Drive conversation on Monday, 09 October over being called out by your significant other.
David, who’s married to former Spice Girls member, Posh Spice, told his wife in a promotional video for his documentary to be honest about her upbringing, after she claimed to have come from a working class family.
But his wife, who now has her own beauty and fashion brands, did not come from a working class family like her football star husband, and was instead dropped off at school in a Rolls Royce.
While the Beckhams’ banter was playful, it did highlight the importance of keeping your partner in check by not exaggerating facets of your lives together.
But, the way you call your partner out on any discrepancies in your relationship is just as important, or it will just come across as you belittling your significant other.
WATCH: David Beckham calling out his wife Victoria
@thedailystar David Beckham ruins Victoria Beckham for claiming to be ‘working class’ #dailystar #davidbeckham #victoriabeckham #football #funny #netflix ♬ original sound – Daily Star ⭐️
Keeping a relationship scorecard
If you call out your partner to keep score of past mistakes, then this is unfortunately not a healthy approach.
Falling into a pattern of the blame game to see who has messed up more in the past month or week, is only going to lead to you resenting your partner and relationship.
Not only are you deflecting on the issue that you may be experiencing on hand, but you are continuously in a cycle where the problem recurs, until it’s swept under the rug for the time being.
Then there’s the partner who doesn’t have a problem calling you out on your problem areas, only to get really upset and offended when you bring their shortfalls to their attention.
Resorting to hints, instead of being straightforward enough to call your partner out is also a misguided approach, so it really is a tricky slope in relationship-ville.
Listen to the conversation on Kaya Drive:
Also read: “I’m open to polygamy but uncomfortable with my husband having another wife:” The Blind Spot
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