Katlego Sekhu

During a weekend chat with friends, one listener had an eye-opening moment about her own double standards regarding polygamy. Surprisingly, she admitted that if her current marriage were to end, she wouldn’t mind exploring a polygamous relationship. However, when her husband expressed his desire for a second wife, she immediately shut him down. Feeling concerned, she reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose, fearing her husband’s reaction if he were to discover her true feelings.
“While hanging out with my friends this weekend, the topic of polygamy came up. It was actually brought up by a single lady in our group. As we discussed it, I found myself saying things that made me realize I have some double standards. I mentioned that if my current marriage were to fail, I wouldn’t mind being a second wife. However, if my husband were to say right now that he wants a second wife, I would absolutely refuse.
“Unfortunately, my husband wasn’t present during this conversation, but since we’re all friends, I know this information will reach him soon. And knowing him, he’s definitely going to interrogate me about my statement. It’s true that I caught him cheating with the same woman twice, but he never had the courage to ask me if he should make her his second wife. I still have my suspicions that he’s seeing her, though.
“I can’t help but wonder why I have these double standards. Is it because he never mentioned the possibility of taking a second wife when we started dating? Or is it because I caught him cheating and I simply don’t want to give him any satisfaction?”
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