By Kaya 959 Lifestyle
The festive season is in full swing. South Africans have been in ‘Ke Dezemba Boss’ mode since December 1. Many are looking forward to being with friends and family.
But what about those who are not keen on spending long days and even longer nights with annoying relatives?
South Africa’s salad queen, Chantal Lascaris, is sharing five tips on what to do when hosting family members from near and far.
She says there are a few things you can do to ensure it’s a happy time for all.
Be upfront from the get-go
Lascaris says many people are naturally inclined people-pleasers. She says this often makes it difficult to broach the subject of boundaries during the holidays.
“While it can be uncomfortable to have conversations around what we do or don’t want, it’s worth doing so in advance,” she adds.
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One last bite
“You know those lunches that run into the evening and in spite of serving a full meal hours before, you have guests on your hands who’re beginning to get peckish? While we’re not suggesting you dive back into the kitchen, you can put lunch’s leftovers to use in a simple salad,” Lascaris advises.
Save some ‘me time’
She says it is important to let guests know that you need a little alone time. She adds that she has a rule that 2:30pm – 4pm is quiet time.
“During this time, everyone gets the opportunity to sit back, nap or relax, ensuring that visitors don’t pop in unannounced. By letting everyone know when you’re planning on taking some quiet time during the day, you won’t feel pressured to keep everyone entertained,” Lascaris says.
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Easy can be best
Lascaris says rather than serve up a three-course meal that requires hours of cooking in the kitchen, give yourself the gift of less stress by serving tapas, which are quick to prep and put together.
Give your guests something to do
“If you find someone staying past their welcome, whether it’s at a party or on holiday, ask them to pitch in. This will hopefully result in an extra set of hands to help get things done,” Lascaris says.
She adds that in the past, hosts may have been expected to do everything – but no more.
“While you’ve got guests and family in your home, let them help out: say ‘yes’ when they offer to do the dishes, get groceries, split the catering, and even help clean the house,” she says.
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