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'I honoured my mourning period, yet my in-laws refuse to let me go' – The Blind Spot

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‘I honoured my mourning period, yet my in-laws refuse to let me go’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous struggles to rebuild her life after husband’s death Katlego Sekhu Listener Struggles to Rebuild Life After Husband’s Death A listener shared that her husband passed away shortly after they got married. Since they were living under his parents’ roof, she stayed with them for a year as part of the mourning period. As she prepared to rebuild her life this year, her mother-in-law refused to let her leave, saying […]

today10/09/2025

‘My husband wants to visit his terminally ill ex, but I feel overshadowed’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My husband wants to visit his terminally ill ex, but I feel overshadowed’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Alex Green: https://www.pexels.com/photo/annoyed-young-ethnic-couple-quarreling-in-cozy-apartment-5699841/ A listener shares that her partner’s ex is terminally ill, and he has been insisting on going to see her as he feels compelled to. While Anonymous is trying her best to be empathetic, she struggles to understand why this is so important to him, given that they were never married and do not share children. Reaching out to The Best T in […]

today09/09/2025

‘My boyfriend bought a house and a car, yet never told me’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My boyfriend bought a house and a car, yet never told me’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous is beginning to wonder if there is a future for her and her boyfriend. Katlego Sekhu Image by prostooleh on Freepik A listener shares that she has been dating her boyfriend for four years, but he never consults her on financial decisions. Last year he bought a car without saying a word. More recently, he purchased a house and still did not tell her. When she raised the issue, […]

today08/09/2025

'I love my wife, but must I compete with her sister for her time?' - The Blind Spot

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‘I love my wife, but must I compete with her sister for her time?’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous is feeling neglected in his marriage Katlego Sekhu Image: pexels-diva-plavalaguna A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City to share his frustration about his wife spending most of her time at her sister’s house. The couple has been married for a year, but according to him, his wife has not made time to bond at home, choosing instead to spend her afternoons with her sister […]

today04/09/2025

‘As a pastor’s wife, I’m bleeding silently while he heals others’ - The Blind Spot

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‘As a pastor’s wife, I’m bleeding silently while he heals others’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous feels that her husband has neglected their marriage Katlego Sekhu Image by katemangostar on Freepik Anonymous shares that her husband, a pastor, is well respected in his church and has counselled many couples. However, their own marriage is facing difficulties, and she suggested they seek guidance from the church elders. Her husband did not take this well. He explained that many people look up to him, and he feels […]

today02/09/2025

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‘My husband has cut me off financially after I caught him cheating’ – The Blind Spot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Anonymous finds herself in a heartbreaking and difficult position. She caught her husband cheating on multiple occasions, and when she turned to her father-in-law for help, he admitted he had already tried to intervene and advised her to leave. Earlier this year, she finally reached her breaking point, packed her belongings, and moved out with her daughter. In retaliation, her husband stopped providing financial […]

today01/09/2025

‘I fear my wife is too hard on my son because he isn’t hers’ – The Blind Spot

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‘I fear my wife is too hard on my son because he isn’t hers’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu A listener shares that he fathered a child outside his marriage. His wife and family were deeply disappointed but eventually grew to accept the child. They decided that he should come to live with them, as their household was more stable. However, years later, the listener feels his son is being treated unfairly by his wife compared to their daughters. He believes this may be because he shares […]

today28/08/2025

‘My wife used our home to hide her friend’s affair’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My wife used our home to hide her friend’s affair’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous is left questioning whether he can trust his wife Katlego Sekhu Photo by Diva Plavalaguna: https://www.pexels.com/photo/couple-in-robes-arguing-5710386/ A worried listener revealed that his wife has been hiding her friend’s affair right under his nose. The wife’s friend would often leave her car at their house, claiming it was safer there whenever she was in the neighbourhood to visit her “family.” During a recent boys’ night out, Anonymous discovered that the […]

today27/08/2025

‘I struggle to love my firstborn because she reminds me of an ex’ - The Blind Spot

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‘I struggle to love my firstborn because she reminds me of an ex’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by pch.vector on Freepik Reaching out to The Best T in the City with Tbose, a listener admits that she loves her youngest child more than her firstborn. She explains that her eldest reminds her of her father, an abusive and controlling ex, and she has been projecting her resentment onto her. For years, she masked this by labelling the child as a delinquent, but after gaining […]

today26/08/2025

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