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'My ex's mother doesn’t want to accept that we’ve broken up’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My ex’s mother doesn’t want to accept that we’ve broken up’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by pikisuperstar on Freepik A listener shares that she and her husband divorced two years ago and have been co-parenting successfully. However, her ex-mother-in-law keeps trying to pull her back into the past, constantly sharing updates about what her ex has been up to. For the listener, these unsolicited updates feel like a step backward, especially as she has moved on with her life. Reaching out to […]

today12/11/2025

'How do I set boundaries without making my sister upset' – The Blind Spot

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‘How do I set boundaries without making my sister upset’ – The Blind Spot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Anonymous achieved financial stability after a tough upbringing and is buying their mother a dream home. Her dilemma arose when the mother insisted Anonymous' boundary-violating sister must move in, viewing Anonymous' refusal as selfishness and abandoning family. Anonymous is torn between the need for self-preservation and establishing healthy boundaries in their new life, versus the familial obligation to collectively uplift relatives still in poverty, […]

today10/11/2025

‘Since my injury, my boyfriend has been distant’ - The Blind Spot

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‘Since my injury, my boyfriend has become distant’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by ASphotofamily on Freepik A listener shares that after she got injured and asked her boyfriend to move in, he has become distant and cold. At first, she thought he was simply adjusting to her temporary disability, but months later, his behaviour remains the same. Now, Anonymous wonders if this is a sign of how he might act if they were to get married. Reaching out to […]

today05/11/2025

‘I chose safety over love, and now I don’t recognise myself’ – The Blind Spot

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‘I chose safety over love, and now I don’t recognise myself’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Happy senior man enjoying Christmas dinner table together with close family members while smiling heartily at camera. Joyful person sitting in living room while celebrating traditional winter holiday. A listener shares that she has never truly loved her husband. She agreed to marry him because he felt safe and could provide financially. Years into the marriage, she now feels resentful and believes she made the wrong decision. Reaching […]

today03/11/2025

‘He says ‘God will provide’, but I’m the one paying bills’ – The Blind Spot

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‘He says ‘God will provide’, but I’m the one paying bills’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by pressfoto on Freepik A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose to share her frustration about being the sole provider in her home. She explained that her husband has made little effort to find work and has relied on her financially for years. To make matters worse, his eldest son has moved into her house, a situation she says has […]

today29/10/2025

‘My wife’s brother turned our house into a party spot’ – The Blind Spot

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‘My wife’s brother turned our house into a party spot’ – The Blind Spot

Anonymous has asked his wife to choose between her family and their marriage. Katlego Sekhu Image by freepik A listener shares that his wife owns the house they live in. All was going well until her brother moved in. He says the brother has turned their home into a party spot and doesn’t respect their space. When he raised this with his wife, she said she couldn’t just send her […]

today27/10/2025

‘I love him, but I can’t ignore the polygamy in his family’ - The Blind  Spot

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‘I love him, but I can’t ignore the polygamy in his family’ – The Blind  Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image: rawpixel.com A listener shared that she’s in a relationship with a man she deeply loves. However, he comes from a polygamous family, and that worries her. She’s concerned that he might one day follow in his father’s footsteps. Although he has assured her that he has no plans to take more than one wife, he hasn’t completely ruled out the possibility. Now, Anonymous is torn. Part of […]

today23/10/2025

‘My husband chooses alcohol over me’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My husband chooses alcohol over me’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by tirachardz on Freepik A listener has opened up about how her husband’s excessive drinking has taken a serious toll on their marriage, leaving her deeply unhappy. She says he often drinks to the point of losing control, sometimes urinating on himself and using vulgar language. Despite reaching out to his parents for help, nothing has changed. Writing to The Best T in the City with Tbose, […]

today22/10/2025

‘Another woman told me my husband was cheating’ - The Blind Spot

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‘Another woman told me my husband was cheating’ – The Blind Spot

The same woman also had an affair with her husband Katlego Sekhu Image cred: FreePik/Wayhomestudio A listener shared that a woman who works with her husband recently reached out to her on social media, claiming that he is having an affair. In the same message, the woman confessed that she too had once been involved with her husband and went on to ask for forgiveness. Now, Anonymous is left questioning […]

today16/10/2025

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POPIA ActTo promote the protection of personal information processed by public and private bodies; to introduce certain conditions so as to establish minimum requirements for the processing of personal information; to provide for the establishment of an Information Regulator to exercise certain powers and to perform certain duties and functions in terms of this Act and the Promotion of Access to Information Act, 2000; to provide for the issuing of codes of conduct; to provide for the rights of persons regarding unsolicited electronic communications and automated decision making; to regulate the flow of personal information across the borders of the Republic; and to provide for matters connected therewith.

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