Do women have exceptionally high standards when it comes to relationships, and more especially with their expectations of a partner? According to the Best T in the City, that seems to be the norm today.
Placing emphasis on the new age era of dating standards today, women are said to no longer be phased to walk out on a relationship that is not fulfilling them.
This has nothing to do with her feelings for you, she could love you but not be willing to lower her standards. She has this vision of the “perfect” relationship and it does not include a man who lets her down.
It may not even be about material expectations, just the basics like communication, showing up, including her.
Author of “Think Like A Monk”, Jay Shetty shares insight into why women feel their partners don’t meet their standards and it often boils down to comparing your relationship and partner to your friends.
Does this sound familiar?
What are your thoughts? Listen to the talk on The Best T in the City:
3TSpoons on: Why Young Women Dump Men That Don’t Meet Their Standards:
1. Their Happiness Comes First
Gone are the days when a man’s happiness comes first in a relationship. Young women today refuse to be made to feel anything less than a queen. If they feel like they’re being derailed in any way, they will walk away especially if they believe they did all they could to keep the relationship going.
2. They Think Like A Man:
One thing young women have had to learn is that the sea may not be full of men who can meet their standards, but that doesn’t mean they must lower their standards and settle for someone who constantly shows no sign to meet her needs.
3. They Figured What Love Is:
Once you understand who you are and what you are worthy of then you will never compromise. Most women go through dating without loving themselves or understanding what it is that they want. But the minute they figure things out then they will never go back to being needy and confused. So don’t be surprised if you get dumped and she never comes back when you ask.
This is what you had to say:
#whenyoudontmeetherstandards Its called self love. Im @ that stage. I hv worked on that. Men dont get it coz women used to settle for everything they brought. Young women r teaching us older women nt to settle even to a cheating men. Wen self love nd worth is compromised, leave
— Phumzile Sibanyoni? (@PhumiS3) March 23, 2021
A generation of women who know what they want and go out to get it. Women have been lowering their standards for men for the longest time, maybe it’s time we men up our standard for them. @tboseZA #WhenYouDontMeetHerStandards
— Sejato Paledi (@sejatopaledi) March 23, 2021
Some of these woman had good man in their lives but they lost them because they thought money is love. Asikho lapho I’m only here for comments.#WhenYouDontMeetHerStandards pic.twitter.com/2D98Vm42ol
— PAULIGAN (@paulmazibuko5) March 23, 2021
@tboseZA I’m not concerned with not meeting her standards. As long as she’s wise, kind & matured enough not to take me for a ride. They’ll always be someone to whom I’m good enough. #whenyoudontmeetherstandards
— Kgomotso Ntu (@coach_57926) March 23, 2021
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