By Kaya 959 Reporter
Yesterday on The Best T in the city, Tbose asked the Kaya 959 listeners, “What kind of a fighter/arguer are you in your relationship?” And most people admitted to being the withdrawer.
The feedback got him wondering if angry sex could be the answer to this?
3TSpoons on: Why #CanSexEndArguments
It’s an Outlet: Instead of tearing each other apart, sex is the outlet, and your bodies are the tools. This could equal some intensity, and hey, we all need that from time to time.
It’s a Break From the Ordinary: When you’re mad at each other, you tend to give each other space and distance. So once you do get it on, the emotions and sensations are intense because it’s almost like having “new sex” again, except you both know what to do for each other, so it’s even better.
It Helps Relieve Tension: A nice round of sex can diffuse tension and make for a better and calmer discussion post-sex.
[3 TSpoons] On Why #CanSexEndArguments
🥄 It’s an Outlet
🥄 It’s a Break From the Ordinary
— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) November 17, 2021
Reactions from Kaya 959 listeners
“I believe it depends on the type of argument we’re having. Petty arguments can be ended by sex, but the serious ones, don’t try and touch me while we are arguing,” shared a listener.
Based on her experience, Cleo believes that sex does settle the fights.
“We were fighting, and then the fight ended up with us doing the deed, and he was calling out my name. So indeed, sex does settle the fight,” said Cleo.
— Best selling Author (@MeshackBevhula) November 17, 2021
Sex plays an integral part in a relationship,having consensual angry sex calms the heart & soul,shifting connection 4rm anger to pleasure shows happiness is still important & after the dance we’ll be like”why you did that though?”With smiles full of Orgasms💦 #CanSexEndArguments
— Tarch (@TarciaMakgolane) November 17, 2021
Yes it relives tension but no it doesn’t end the argument. Something else will happen that will trigger that argument and y’all be back at it again😂😂😂 #CanSexEndArguments
— Short_Stuff (@Bubu_King02) November 17, 2021