By Katlego Sekhu
Trust in an intimate relationship is rooted in feeling safe with the other person. Infidelity, lies, or broken promises can severely damage the trust between couples.
Now, what happens when that trust is broken? “How do you regain your partner’s trust?” Asked Tbose this morning on The Best T in the City.
Lerato says it starts with changed behavior.
“I think once you forgive someone, what the other person needs to do is to show with a change in behavior that they deserve to be forgiven and trusted again. I mean you can’t say you are sorry but not show with your actions that you have changed. I think changed behavior goes hand in hand with trusting someone again,” she shares.
Noni is not ready to forgive. “I had a problem in a relationship whereby I used to be accused of things that were not true. Ultimately I found out that my person was cheating. It was too deep, it hurt me to a point whereby I no longer wanted to consider forgiving,” he tells Tbose.
Mobolao says it depends on the transgression. “I think it depends on the transgression. There are certain things that you can never forgive because you will never be able to look at the person the same. I’m talking from personal experience, the one thing that he could do for me now is to sign the divorce papers because there is no going back.”
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