By Zuko Komisa
There are a lot of layers to peel back when two people start a relationship, and it gets even more complicated if both of them have been “damaged” in their past relationships.
Damaged or broken individuals tend to connect with one another in different ways.
They understand how it feels to have problems that no one else seems to grasp, even though it might be challenging to meet each other’s needs without putting theirs own needs first.
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Point of View with Phemelo Motene spoke to Magauta and Nhlanhla Zwane about what it takes to thrive in a relationship where both you and your partner have had horrible experiences in the name of love.
LISTEN TO THE FULL CONVERSATION HERE:
PART 1
PART 2
They explained how people that are broken want to fix others. Because those who are injured enjoy helping others as well, fixing themselves is often not enough. Because they are familiar with how it feels to be broken, they believe they can repair someone.
The Zwanes explained how It won’t always be smooth sailing, and there will almost always be issues that seem to spell the end of the partnership.
They also reminded Kaya 959 listeners that if they truly love their partners, these problems can and will not be permanent.
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