Zuko Komisa

“It doesn’t work if there’s still unfinished business” – Things that make co-parenting not work.
Co-parenting is challenging. Particularly at first, when the wounds are still raw and you have to completely transform your once-romantic relationship.
Many parents around the world have the tough task of navigating an unfamiliar territory of co-parenting.
The challanges of sorting out are new timetables, new systems, and new, well, everything.
Resentment and bitterness can easily creep in while you hold your ex accountable for minor scheduling errors, or refusing to meet in the middle out of pure spite.
Feel Good with Andy Maqondwana spoke to Kaya 959 listeners who shared their experiences of their co-parenting journey and the things they realized made it not work.
Listen to the full conversation here:
“We need to respect each other’s times and respect each other”
“If there’s no mutual respect you will have problems”
“When you are still holding on to your unfinished business”
“When your child’s routine is not synchronised”
“When there are no chilled egos”
“You need to like this person you have a child with”
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