By Katlego Sekhu

On The Blind Spot this WetNes Wednesday, a listener stands at losing his marriage if he doesn’t stop watching pornography. He sees no harm in what he is doing, but his wife does not do not approve.
He wants to know how he can make her understand that she is not lacking in anything.
“My wife found my porn files on my laptop and questioned whether I’m a porn addict. I reluctantly said yes because at that moment, the way she asked the question felt as if it was too much for her.
“I then deleted everything and assured her that I was done. However, after two months I went back and I was able to hide it until this past weekend she caught me red-handed.
“I sat her down and tried to explain that I’m not a porn addict. I enjoy indulging from time to time. She, however, questioned that if I continued watching she will leave me because my porn consumption makes her feel inadequate.
Experts have warned that pornography creates unrealistic expectations in relationships.
Gary Gilles, a clinical professional counselor said that porn can have a negative effect on emotional intimacy because some partners do consider secretly watching porn an indiscretion.
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