By Katlego Sekhu

This Thursday’s Blind Spot is a bit of an interesting one. Anonymous’ husband has been on her case about losing weight, and now that she has joined the gym and is seeing results, he wants her to quit.
“After years of complaining, crying and being miserable about my weight and health I finally joined the gym. Hubby joined as well. It was all fun until recently, he sat me down and asked me to quit this weight loss journey.
“It left me very surprised. However, the conversation didn’t end well and this has brought in a lot of tension in the house. To a point where he has started bringing home take aways to tempt me.
“I don’t know if it’s me or him whose being inconsiderate. Am I missing something?”
Anonymous
A listener by the name Hlezi says it’s not about him but about her.”If it makes her happy she should continue and it’s not about him. The more he tempts her, she must gear up her courage and continue,” advised Anonymous.
Another listener, Lekgoana says maybe he is jealous because she is becoming sexier. “He could be worried about the guys at the gym or maybe he just likes BBW,” said Lekgoana.
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