Katlego Sekhu

One listener shared that her husband lost his job a few years ago and didn’t work for a long time. However, he recently started making money again and even bought a new car. The listener is concerned because he hasn’t told her how he’s earning money and sometimes comes home late at night.
“Uncle T, my husband, was retrenched in 2021. He didn’t get a lot of money, and I had to take over most of our bills. Late last year, I started to see a change in him; he started contributing. more financially at home. While I am happy to have the financial stress lowered, I can’t help but feel he is up to no good. My husband went from always being indoors to always going out and coming back in the wee hours of the morning
“He even bought himself a brand new car and gave me more money every month. When I ask where he gets the money, he tells me not to worry, but how can I not? Yes, not having money problems sure feels good, but I can’t shake the feeling that whatever he is doing will get us in trouble. Should I keep pushing him to tell me where all this money is coming from, or must I just eat and keep it moving? When in a relationship, do you need to know exactly how your partner makes his money, especially when they have side hustles?”
Anonymous
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