Katlego Sekhu

A listener who recently tied the knot shared that her husband constantly gripes about her group of friends. He’s worried because she’s the only one who’s married, while all her friends are still single.
She thinks it’s not fair for her husband to ask her to ditch her friends when some of his buddies are also unmarried. She reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose to see if there was anything she might be missing.
“I got married late last year. Things have been going well; however, of late, my husband has been complaining about my friends. I am the only one married, so my husband feels I should reduce my time with them. While I hear where he is coming from, I have been with this group of women when we met so he knows them well. But more than anything, I feel he should trust me and know that I will not do anything
stupid.“I just don’t see why I should stop or reduce the amount of time with I spend my friends while he keeps his circle, some of whom are not married. One thing I promised myself when I got married was that I would never look down on my friends or stop hanging out with them.
“I love them and they also respect my marriage. Now that I am married, should my lifestyle and company also change? I think lovers like to project their insecurities and trust issues onto their partners, and that is what I think my husband is doing here. Or is there something I am not seeing?”
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