Katlego Sekhu

A listener shares her story about leaving her husband because he was jobless, but now she’s having second thoughts and wants to make amends. Before taking any steps, she’s questioning whether her desire to reconcile makes her selfish.
“A few years ago, my husband was fired from his job, which means he never got any benefits. After a year of being the breadwinner, I decided to file for divorce because it was hard on me. My husband fought to save our marriage, but I went through with it.
“Last year, in March, he got a good job, and I am happy for him. I am starting to miss my ex-husband, and I now realise that I miss him a lot. I miss a good man here. We co-parent very well. I want to fix things now. Would I be wrong and selfish to ask him to take me back? I honestly regret my decision, and I would kill for us to fix things.”
Anonymous
One listener pointed out that Anonymous might only want him back because he’s working again. “She is just after the money because the man is now working. If he were unemployed, would she still want him back? She must just be honest with herself.”
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