By Katlego Sekhu
Relationships never die a slow natural death; they are usually murdered.
There are usual suspects for slowly killing relationships, like infidelity, blame games, and insecurity.
Then there are murderers on the loose that kill without warning like your fraudsters or controlling people.
And then there’s the one culprit we hardly talk about and that is distance.
This week, The Best T in the City with Tbose asks “how did you murder your relationship?”
A listener shares:
“For me, the deal breaker is that they are never wrong. You know those people Uncle T, that won’t even see that they are wrong and apologise?
“For them, it’s always about them. For me, it’s a red flag and once I see it I’m out.”
Anonymous says that one thing she’ll not tolerate in a relationship is disrespect.
“Don’t talk to me like you are speaking to a child and I don’t have a mind of my own. Also, don’t assume stuff, just talk.”
Catch up on The Best T in the City podcast.
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