By Wanique Block
Talking about money is generally one of the most awkward and uncomfortable conversations to have.
Not only are these conversations daunting and often seen as taboo, but many if not most don’t know where to start, especially where relationships are concerned.
Time and time again we have come to the realisation that relationships, whether romantic or otherwise, cannot thrive on just giving and receiving love and affection.
Whether you like it or not money plays a huge part in the trajectory of your relationship, especially in romantic relationships.
Although the debate about money in relationships varies, I think it’s important to note that despite there being no formula for “money conversations”, you need to start talking about money with your partner. Not only is it important but your relationship depends on it!
On Feel Good with Andy Maqondwana, Andy asks listeners about how they deal with finances and money within their relationships.
Oh, and boy did Feel Good listeners have a lot to say!
One listener shares how she learned the hard way that her money is her money.
“You Maqondwana Imali yam, Imali yam! Believe me, you don’t want to know, I learned the hard way! My money is my money”.
Another listener shared how she and her husband formulate a budget for their household.
“So in my household, we formulate a budget. Hubby will send me his share of the money. Obviously, we’re not doing 50/50, so the person who earns the most will cover most of our expenses. And any funds left in his account will be his, as long as he contributes to the shared budget”, she shares.
Another listener, however, reiterates the importance of working as a team with his partner.
“For the sake of my peace and transparency, I prefer if we combined our money and worked as a team”.
For more on this conversation listen to the Feel Good podcast with Andy Maqondwana:
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