There are important questions couples should talk about before marriage. Some people are concerned that having differing beliefs or opinions than their partner – on topics such as religion, politics, or morals, for example – will lead to conflicts in the future.
And, while holding different viewpoints on prominent issues can cause conflict, it is by no means an indication that you can’t succeed as a couple.
Kaya 959 listener *Palesa discussed her partner’s desire to marry on Talk with Sotho Meyer. On the other hand, she does not want to get married and is unsure how to proceed.
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Therapy is essential, and it will make a couple realize their disagreements aren’t the issue. It will also assist a couple in navigating how they cope with problems, according to Jennifer Papers, Director at (FAMSA) the Family Life Centre.
10 questions couples should talk about before marriage:
- A list of some of the questions to ask yourself about whether you are still dating.
- What is the point of marriage?
- How well do we currently treat disputes among ourselves?
- How important do you place on time spent together vs time spent apart?
- What role do you think children will play in our lives?
- What if we can’t have biological children?
- How do you want your sexual desires to be met if I don’t satisfy them?
- Do you want different bank accounts, or do you want to pool all of your assets?
- Do we settle with who does what in our house?
- What memories from your youth gave you the most joy? Who suffers the most?
It is critical to comprehend the concept of dating or courting. A couple must first get to know one another. According to Jennifer Papers, the divorce rate is too high because of finances within a relationship. “People argue for money, and contact plays a critical role in the success of a partnership.”


