How to avoid arguments in a relationship.
It’s the battle of the century, with you and your partner caught in a never-ending back and forth.
You can’t remember what began this particular fight because of all the back and forth and all you know is that you’re not going to blow it this time.
Arguments are very inevitable in every relationship, particularly because this is two very different people, who have two different backgrounds.
Point of View with Phemelo Motene spoke to marriage counsellors Magauta and Nhlanhla Zwane about how to avoid money arguments in a relationship., and responded to a listener who’s having relationship issues
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Arguments, while ‘pleasant’ in the time, can shake the foundations of your relationship.
Nhanhla and Magauta say if you’re fighting with your partner more frequently, you should consider why.
Sure, all couples argue from time to time, but you don’t want to make it a habit. They spoke about returning back to love, and understanding what people trade with in relationships.
There must be evidence of someone’s love for you
“It must exist, you can not go around saying someone loves you when he behaves as though he doesn’t. Love is seen in behaviors’, love is seen in commitment, love is seen in presence.”
Understand what people trade with in a relationship
“Women trade with their bodies, men trades with their time, if he doesn’t love you. When a woman opens up her body to you she is saying I am into you, I love you. When a man give you his time, he is saying I love you. If these things are not offered freely from the other party, there is a problem.”
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