“He no longer turns me on.” That was the topic of discussion on the Best T in the city with Tbose this morning.
How do you tell him that he no longer turns you on and what could be the cause?
Uncle T and the listeners delved deeper into the topic.
“Guys forget that foreplay begins during the day.
If you see that she needs help in the house you help her out before she even asks.”
He shared possible reasons for this during the ‘The 3 TSpoons’ other than the man.
The spark is gone
The spark is gone. It is not spontaneous anymore.
You love each other, yes. But the spark is no longer there.
The love is gone
You are no longer turned on because the love is gone.
Your partner not turning you on may have nothing to do with him but more to do with you.
You long left the relationship emotionally. You are just there physically.
The label is gone
You have of late realized that your sexuality is not what you thought it was. For instance, you are bisexual – now you realise.
Yes, you love being married to your partner but you also like being with the other gender.
But your urge to explore the other side is so overwhelming. It’s pushing you away from home.
[3 TSpoons] On When You Are No Longer Turned On:
🥄 The Spark Is Gone
🥄 The Love Is Gone
— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) October 20, 2021
Social media reactions
My 2 cents worth, as much as men say they can’t eat an apple 4eva the same applies 2 women.We just don’t have receipts in mpst cases. Side niggas don’t get pregnant & cause drama.Also we are tired of missionary haaibo si flippeni nathi like u would a flapjack #HeNoLongerTurnsMeOn pic.twitter.com/YHrOS0kTr4
— Sisi wama 2000 (@NginguBusi) October 20, 2021
The problem starts the moment we let fire (passion) die and we no longer do things we were doing at the beginning #HeNoLongerTurnsMeOn
— Ultimate Outcast (@roka_feela) October 20, 2021
Eish T, he doesn’t turn me on anymore, I force myself and pray he finished before my mind wonders around, the problem is with me I know, I don’t love him like I used to anymore am no longer crazy about him, I just don’t feel this relationship at all😥
— Thandi (@Thandi62260288) October 20, 2021