By Katlego Sekhu
Do you feel like, with everything in life, you are never the first choice? Even with the things you want/desire, you usually get second best.
Does this make you feel like you are not good enough?
The Chairman, who was a guest on My Top 10 at 10 back in Jan said “it’s a used car to the previous owner not to you. To you it’s a new car, therefore what you call second best is new to you so appreciate it.”
Kaya 959 listeners share their thoughts on being second best
“I think when it comes to feeling second best, it is just a mindset thing. live life with no expectations and you won’t get disappointed and therefore you won’t feel second best,” a listener shares.
Another Kaya 959 listener felt second after applying for a job. “For me, it’s the job I had applied for, and come selection time I knew that the job was mine. And then boom – they told me they decided they want someone else. If the universe doesn’t want you there it doesn’t want you there/ But it’s hard to accept,” she said.
What are people saying on social media:
Me bra T I always get more than what I wanted, because i am patient when I fail on something I always go back to try again, then boom I get more than what I was planning to get.
— Samsta (@samjamsta) March 14, 2022
Honestly I mostly feel like this, its disappointing at times cos you just end up settling for anything you get and you have to be ok with it… #AlwaysGetSecondBest
— Siya The Girl 💁♀️® (@CeeYaNonoise) March 14, 2022
#AlwaysGetSecondBest Good Moro UncleT always ☹️ it is a terrible feeling to be like the second best UncleT. It makes you feel like you are not good enough;it makes you feel like you're worthless and you dont matters to others.
— LethukuthulaLuthango (@Samluthango) March 14, 2022
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