By Katlego Sekhu
Are you currently not on speaking terms with some family members?
Our resident medium Tebogo Mfete is here to give direction as to how we can resolve these family feuds.
“So le bakisane eng?” The Best T in the City listeners share what is actually causing feuds in their families.
Lezo says most feuds are inherited from the parents. “We inherited beef from the parents from my mom’s side. I haven’t seen my cousins in fifteen years. I’m so used to not having a relationship with them. We planned a reunion but ga ra tlwaelana.”
Puna shares: “I have a sister and we are going to court next month. She wants to get me arrested and she’s now including the kids. I don’t know what is so huge that I have done to her. I want to get the truth because we are going nowhere. What worries me is that the kids are now getting involved.”
James says that there are a lot of things that make people fight. “My brother always wants to show dominance over me. I’ve noticed the type of person that he is and he is a lier. We know that he’ll always come back with stories,” he shares.
Here’s what people are saying on social media:
#FightsInTheFamily @TebogoMfete
— Alvira Lona (@amggg06) March 15, 2022
Absolutely 💯
I normally take a break from them if I feel I’m not in the right space to be reasonable or to angry to think rationally.
This way I avoid saying something that can never be taken back.
Why does it seem like it’s easier for umkhwenyana to get along with his brother in law than it is for oMakoti to see eye to eye with their sisters in law? #FightsInTheFamily
— Thaps (@thapsdinho) March 15, 2022
#FightsInTheFamily all it takes is one toxic person wadi tshele to influence the rest and from there it’s chaos. The old generation needs to heal from whatever caused them trauma because ke bona ba tshwenyang.
— Lulu Mkhawane (@LMkhawane) March 15, 2022


