By Kya 959 Reporter
Ladies, have you ever had the saying, “be his peace, not his headache? ”And what exactly do these words mean to you?
According to research, being his peace means you should be a reassuring presence in his life and offer him an escape from life’s everyday challenges.
In simple terms, be his fresh air, o ska mofa stress, and make sure he always looks forward to coming back home.
However, is this level of expectation fair to women?
A listener tells The Best T in the City with Tbose: “You can never give what you don’t have. If you don’t have peace how will you give it to someone else? You can never want to dish out what you don’t have or are prepared to dish out.”
Rose says “it is unfortunate because women are trying.” She explains: “Some men are damaged from previous relationships and from their childhoods. As a woman, you can try to contain and maintain peace but if the man doesn’t have it then there’s nothing you can do as a woman.”
Check out some of the reactions from social media:
#BeAMansPeace https://t.co/l4qYOZ4OGS
— T. (@tboseZA) July 5, 2022
#BeAMansPeace https://t.co/ZcnyP4v2ns
— T. (@tboseZA) July 5, 2022
#BeAMansPeace Communicate your issues without degrading him. Adress the behaviour and be able to speak in a manner which will correct the issue.
— Molatela (@lati30) July 5, 2022
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