By Katlego Sekhu

Anonymous is worried that her partner is losing interest as he no longer does the little things that makes her happy.
“I just want to know what it means when your partner suddenly stops doing the little things he used to do for you. Like making your coffee or giving you random calls during the day, cooking for you now and again. He has suddenly stopped worrying about my whereabouts. It has been three weeks now. Am I reading too much into things? I’m slightly worried and I think he quietly leaving me.”
One listener cautions her to speak to her partner before it’s too late.
“You need to sit with yourself and think back about what you did wrong three weeks ago. Either there is something he did to you or he did something for you and you criticized. Men are very sensitive. Speak to him while it is still early.”
Another listener believes the relationship os over.
“Men can’t multi-task, the things he is doing for you now he could be doing for somebody else. It’s not your fault, he is just on the other side,” the listener said.
Intimacy and sex are often confused as one while they are not.
Sexual intercourse is more physical while intimacy is more the sense of being close to your partner.
Doing romantic things for each other can help and also elevate the connection between you and your partner. Romantic gestures may differ from couple to couple – these may be based on each other’s love languages. Read about understanding your partner’s love language here.
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