Katlego Sekhu

A concerned listener shares that her best friend tends to walk around her house wearing only a towel whenever she sleeps over. This makes her uncomfortable and raises doubts about her friend’s intentions. The listener reaches out to fellow ‘Best T in the City’ listeners to find out if she could be missing any blind spots.
“Uncle T, my best friend, always comes over to our place to sleep over, especially after a night out since my husband is always our designated driver.
“While I love and enjoy having my friend over, I feel she is overly comfortable walking around the house in a towel even when my husband is home. I find this a bit cringe-worthy and disrespectful. I don’t think my bestie has ideas about my man; however, I just don’t think walking around the house in a towel while my husband is home is right.
“My husband has not said anything, but I am thinking of telling my best friend that I don’t like what she does. Am I right in feeling this way? Or maybe my friend is just comfortable around us? What could be my blind spot?”
Anonymous
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