Zuko Komisa

For couples, curfews can be a useful tool that promotes communication, respect, and trust. Particularly for spouses who might be concerned while their loved ones are out late, they offer a sense of safety and comfort.
Curfews can also assist set up appropriate boundaries and expectations, avoiding late nights that might interfere with family, school, or professional obligations.
Anonymous reached out to The Best T In the City to get advice on whether a fight that broke out between him and the fiancé about the time she wanted to come home was a sign of disrespect.
“Growing up, we were told to be in the house by 6 p.m. for safety reasons. I’ve kept this rule since, even throughout varsity. I’ve made it a house rule, and my fiance understands the purpose of it, but recently, she has had issues with it. We have since amended it to 8 p.m., but she still comes home after the set time.
When this happens, we discuss it, but this time, it was a big fight. I see my kids grow up following this rule, and I fear she will be a bad example. Is she disrespecting me, or is there something I am not seeing?
What is my blind spot?
– Anonymous”
Kaya 959 listeners weighed in on anonymous concern and advised him on the best way forward.
Listen to the full conversation here:
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