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This week, a listener who wished to remain anonymous reached out to The Best T in the City with Tbose to reveal that he recently found out that his wife has been keeping her HIV-positive status a secret since the start of their relationship.
The listener stumbled upon this information by chance while going through their stuff. Feeling hurt and betrayed, he is seeking advice on how to navigate this complex situation.
“My wife has kept a secret from me ever since we met her. She is HIV positive. I found out about this a few months ago as I was looking for something on her side of the wardrobe, only to find a container. I got worried because we have a place where we keep all the medication in the house, so why are these pills hidden here?
“So, I googled the name on the container, I almost died that day. We have 3 kids, 1 girl and 2 boys, so I went through their Clinic cards and got confirmation that she had the disease from the 1st kid (I found her with her 1st child when the kid was about 8 months old), we have been married for 10 years now.
“I love all the kids with all my heart, and I love her as much, but I feel betrayed and confused. I am even afraid to check if I am also positive. How best can I handle this situation? What are the possible blind spots here?”
Anonymous
#TheBlindSpot
— T. (@tboseZA) July 26, 2024
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