Katlego Sekhu
A listener recently confided in The Best T in the City with Tbose about a dilemma in his two-year relationship.
While he values his girlfriend and appreciates her, he doesn’t see a future as husband and wife. Despite exploring other relationships to potentially change his perspective, he still doesn’t see her as a long-term partner. Concerned about leading her on, he’s seeking advice from fellow Kaya 959 listeners.
“I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now. Things are good, but I don’t see myself marrying her. I love her personality, and we enjoy travelling and attending music events. We are in the same career, but despite all these common interests, I don’t see myself getting married to her.
“This really bothers me because how can someone make me laugh and be so happy, yet I can’t bring myself to see her as my wife? I have been having this internal conflict for some time, trying to understand, but I get no answers.
“I am afraid I am stringing her along, but how do I let her go when I don’t know the real issue? Or could the issue be me? I have tried dating two other women while with her to see if my perception would change, but it didn’t. But she is my peace and solace. What could be my blind spot here?”



