Katlego Sekhu

A listener shares that her father-in-law is a priest, and because of this, they have to attend church each Sunday. After the service, they have to spend the rest of the day at her father-in-law’s house.
In the two years they’ve been married, they’ve only ever missed the service on three occasions because they were away. She asked her husband if she could skip the later part of the day sometimes to relax, but he said no. Feeling unheard, Anonymous reaches out to The Best T in the City with Tbose to find out if there are any blind spots she could be missing.
“Uncle T, my father-in-law is a priest and runs his church. Every Sunday after church we convene at my in-law’s house for Sunday lunch. In the beginning, I loved and enjoyed this family tradition but to be honest, I am now tired of it. Hubby and I have been married for two years and we have only ever missed three Sundays because we were away.
“I have asked hubby if we can skip this part of our Sunday, but he won’t hear it if anything he has told me to get used to it because he is going to take over from his father once he steps down and so this is something that will shift to our house.
“I don’t know how much more I can take. After church, I just want to go home and rest with my man or just go eat out somewhere. But I have to be at my in-laws until around 18:00 every Sunday. How can I make hubby see that this is killing me?
“I feel like soon I am going to burst. My in-laws treat me well and I don’t want to lose that but aowa nnai am tired of not having a life on Sundays. Am I being inconsiderate especially towards my husband? Can we start our tradition that works for us than to continue this legacy. What could be my blind spot?”
The Blind Spot
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