Katlego Sekhu

A listener shared that when she got into her current relationship, she didn’t stop seeing her fling. She wanted to test if her new love interest was genuinely committed to her. Consequently, she continued sleeping with both of them.
Now, she finds herself pregnant and uncertain about the true biological father of her child. Seeking advice from fellow Best T listeners, Anonymous is eager to know the best way to handle this sensitive situation.
“Uncle T, I have been dating this guy for three months now, however. Before we met, I was in a situationship. So, I didn’t stop seeing my situationship until last month. I wanted to see if my current was serious, and indeed, he has proven himself. However, I have since found out that I am pregnant, and I know for sure it’s my current boyfriend’s child, as we have been using protection, but also, my math tells me my situationship is the father.
“I have not told any of the men that I am pregnant. I am thinking of ghosting my boyfriend because I can’t bring myself to tell him the truth. My sister says I should tell him and allow him to decide if he wants in or out. My situationship on the other hand, is married, so even if I tell him, I already know that this baby will have to be hidden from his family. Should I listen to my sister, or should I just ghost both men and raise my child alone? I am so conflicted. What could be my blind spot?”
Anonymous
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