Katlego Sekhu

A listener recently reached out to The Best T in the City to share her dilemma. Her sister-in-law had been job hunting for months and finally secured a job. However, her husband informed her that his sister would be moving in with them for a year.
While she has no issues with her sister-in-law, she is concerned about how this arrangement might impact her marriage. She worries that their small living space could put a strain on their relationship.
“My husband’s sister just got a job in Johannesburg, and my husband told me she’ll be coming to live with us. I didn’t have an issue with it at first, but then he mentioned she’d be staying with us for at least a year. I don’t have a problem with my sister-in-law personally, but my husband and I have only been married for seven months and are still learning how to live together.
“We’re already disagreeing on certain things, and our place only has two bedrooms. I feel like having my sister-in-law around could complicate things for us. I also don’t know her very well—I’ve only been around her about three times.
“Would it be wrong of me to suggest that after a month, we help her find her own place? I don’t have an issue with my sister-in-law, but I’ve only been married for a few months, and I know she’ll be watching how I treat her brother. I’m just trying to protect my marriage and my space. What could I be missing here?”
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