Katlego Sekhu

A listener shared with Best T in the City that her teenage son and baby daddy share a birthday.
They planned a joint celebration for the baby daddy’s 40th, but his partner recently asked to postpone it due to other plans.
The listener is conflicted. Changing the date may hurt her son, who is excited about the celebration, but proceeding without the baby daddy could also cause issues.
“Uncle T, my son and his father share a birth date. Our son will be turning 12 next week, and baby daddy will be a milestone 40.
“I spoke to baby-daddy about us doing something big for our son. He agreed, and so I have been busy planning. Then, sometime last week, he called me asking me to move the party by a week because his girlfriend has planned a getaway for him to celebrate his milestone.
“I immediately refused because it was selfish of them to decide this, considering how close the birthday party is, and invites are already out. He then said, “I’ll see to finish,” meaning he would not pay for anything needed for the party.
“To be honest, he is the one paying for the bulk of everything, and so he knows that withholding money will work against me.
“Do I call the whole thing off? I hate how he is using money to get his way. Should I just do as he asks for the sake of our boy, who is very excited about his big day? Or do I continue with the party without him? What could be my blind spot?”
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