Katlego Sekhu

After 6 years of marriage, Anonymous’s husband wants an open relationship to bring some excitement into their love life. Initially, this took her aback, however, after some time she has warmed up to the idea.
“He assured me that this not because there is anything wrong with me but rather he thought everything was going stale. After a month of trying out our new normal, I met a guy and I never thought a day would come where I’d fall for another guy. He has brought so much excitement into my life. He is not married but he told me that he’ll leave his girlfriend should I wish to get married,” expressed Anonymous.
“Me and my husband do check in on one another each month. And when I told him about his guy he, said that the open relationship is not working and we should rather do therapy. Clearly, he is jealous that things are working out for us, but I can’t just switch off my emotions like that. I am enjoying this life and I said no to cutting ties with this boyfriend. Could this be the end of our marriage?”
Anonymous
In as much as open relationships are becoming increasingly common, they can still be difficult to navigate. If you are considering making it a permanent thing, it is important to talk to your partner about it. As difficult as the conversation could be, it is important to be honest with one another.
Here are some tips on approaching the conversation with your partner:
- Do it at a time when you are both calm and relaxed.
- Start by expressing your love and commitment to them.
- Listen to your partner’s concerns and try to understand their point of view.
- Be willing to compromise.
Alternatively, couples counseling is always a good idea.
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