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“My husband’s weight gain is affecting our intimacy” – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock "My husband's weight gain is affecting our intimacy" - The Blindspot. How do you control your emotions when there are changes to the intimacy in your relationship because of your partner's excessive weight gain? This is the dilemma with Anonymous, who is concerned about her husband's weight gain affecting their sex life. She says her husband doesn't last as long as he used to, […]


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“My brother-in-law keeps coming to my place with his side chick” – The Blindspot

Zuko Komisa Image | Adobe Stock Sometimes keeping people's secrets can get overwhelming, especially if people will get hurt when you speak out. This is the case with Anonymous who reached out to The Best T In the City about a matter surrounding her brother-in-law that is always bring his side chick to her house. "Uncle T, my brother-in-law always comes to our house with his side chick. I have […]


"I fear I might never forgive my late husband for cheating on me:" The Blind Spot

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“I fear I might never forgive my late husband for cheating on me:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Aviz: After her husband passed away, a widow discovered messages from him and other women on his phone. This discovery was so painful that she couldn't even cry at his funeral. His parents have suggested a tombstone unveiling for what would have been his 50th birthday in November, but she is still struggling with the hurt from his infidelity. Anonymous is considering telling her late […]


"I am not physically attracted to my partner:" The Blind Spot

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“I am not physically attracted to my partner:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by REAFON GATES: A listener shared that he met his girlfriend through a dating app a couple of months ago, and they hit it off. She is everything he's ever wanted in a woman, but there's one issue - he's not physically attracted to her. His sister reassured him that the physical attraction would come with time. Now he's torn between continuing the relationship or ending […]


"My girlfriend does not want us to do a DNA test for the baby:" The Blind Spot

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“My girlfriend does not want us to do a DNA test for the baby:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Kei Scampa: A listener shared that he and his girlfriend have been in an on-and-off relationship for a while. Recently, she told him that she was pregnant. The problem is that he's not sure if he's the father. He asked her to do a DNA test, but she thought it was unnecessary. He's reaching out to other Best T in the City listeners to see […]


"My 16-year-old daughter wants to move in with her boyfriend's family:" The Blind Spot

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“My 16-year-old daughter wants to move in with her boyfriend’s family:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by KATRIN BOLOVTSOVA: A worried mother shares that her 16-year-old daughter is pregnant. She can't help but feel like a failure, as she got pregnant at just 17. With two other kids to take care of, she's stressed about how she'll manage financially. Her daughter has suggested she move in with her boyfriend's family to ease the financial burden. Anonymous is considering her daughter's suggestion and […]


"My family looks down on my girlfriend because of poor background:" The Blind Spot

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“My family looks down on my girlfriend because of her poor background:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by MART PRODUCTION: A listener recently shared that he has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for a few years and cares deeply for her. Unfortunately, his family disapproves of her because she comes from a less privileged background. He is fed up with his family disrespecting his partner and is considering ending the relationship to protect her from their judgment. Seeking advice from The […]


"I'm scared he will leave if I tell him about no sex before marriage:" The Blind Spot

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“I’m scared he will leave if I tell him about no sex before marriage:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Felipe Silva: A 30-year-old listener, who is a virgin, recently shared that she has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for six months and everything seems to be going well. She has told him that she wants to wait until marriage before having sex, but she is worried that he might lose patience.  "Uncle T, I am a 30-year-old virgin. I have been with […]


"My husband doesn't want me to adopt my late sister's child:" The Blind Spot

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“My husband doesn’t want me to adopt my late sister’s child:” The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Ketut Subiyanto: A listener shares that her husband doesn't want to adopt her late sister's child. What's even more upsetting is that her husband adopted his late girlfriend's child in the past, but now he seems to have double standards when it comes to her niece. She's starting to feel resentful towards her stepchild and wonders if there are any blind spots she might be […]



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Privacy Policy


POPIA ActTo promote the protection of personal information processed by public and private bodies; to introduce certain conditions so as to establish minimum requirements for the processing of personal information; to provide for the establishment of an Information Regulator to exercise certain powers and to perform certain duties and functions in terms of this Act and the Promotion of Access to Information Act, 2000; to provide for the issuing of codes of conduct; to provide for the rights of persons regarding unsolicited electronic communications and automated decision making; to regulate the flow of personal information across the borders of the Republic; and to provide for matters connected therewith.


  • section 14 of the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996, provides that everyone has the right to privacy;
  • the right to privacy includes a right to protection against the unlawful collection, retention, dissemination and use of personal information;
  • the State must respect, protect, promote and fulfil the rights in the Bill of Rights;


  • consonant with the constitutional values of democracy and openness, the need for economic and social progress, within the framework of the information society, requires the removal of unnecessary impediments to the free flow of information, including personal information;


  • regulate, in harmony with international standards, the processing of personal information by public and private bodies in a manner that gives effect to the right to privacy subject to justifiable limitations that are aimed at protecting other rights and important interests,
  1. Definitions and Interpretation

1.1.“Personal Information” means information relating to an identifiable, living, natural person and where it is applicable, identifiable, existing juristic person, including all information as defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013. 

1.2  Parliament assented to POPIA on 19 November 2013. The commencement date of section 1Part A of Chapter 5section 112 and section 113 was 11 April 2014. The commencement date of the other sections was 1 July 2020 (with the exception of section 110 and 114(4). The President of South Africa has proclaimed the POPI commencement date to be 1 July 2020.

1.3. “Processing” means the creation, generation, communication, storage, destruction of personal information as more fully defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013.  

1.4. “You” or the “user” means any person who accesses and browses this website for any purpose. 

1.4. “Website” means the website of the KAYA 959 at URL or such other URL as KAYA 959 may choose from time to time.   

  1. Status and Amendments

2.1. KAYA 959 respects your privacy. This privacy policy statement sets out KAYA 959’s information gathering and dissemination practices in respect of the Website. 

2.2. This Privacy Policy governs the processing of personal information provided to KAYA 959 through your use of the Website. 

2.3. Please note that, due to legal and other developments, KAYA 959 may amend these terms and conditions from time to time.  

  1. Processing of Personal Information

3.1. By providing your personal information to KAYA 959 you acknowledge that it has been collected directly from you and consent to its processing by KAYA 959. 

3.2. Where you submit Personal Information (such as name, address, telephone number and email address) via the website (e.g. through completing any online form) the following principles are observed in the processing of that information: 

3.2.1. KAYA 959 will only collect personal information for a purpose consistent with the purpose for which it is required. The specific purpose for which information is 
collected will be apparent from the context in which it is requested. 

3.2.2. KAYA 959 will only process personal information in a manner that is adequate, relevant and not excessive in the context of the purpose for which it is processed. 

3.2.3. Personal information will only be processed for a purpose compatible with that for which it was collected, unless you have agreed to an alternative purpose in writing or KAYA 959 is permitted in terms of national legislation of general application dealing primarily with the protection of personal information. 

3.2.4. KAYA 959 will keep records of all personal Information collected and the specific purpose for which it was collected for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.5. KAYA 959 will not disclose any personal information relating to you to any third party unless your prior written agreement is obtained or KAYA 959 is required to do so by law. 

3.2.6. If personal information is released with your consent KAYA 959 will retain a record of the information released, the third party to which it was released, the reason for the release and the date of release, for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.7. KAYA 959 will destroy or delete any personal information that is no longer needed by KAYA 959 for the purpose it was initially collected, or subsequently processed. 

3.3. Note that, as permitted by the Electronic Communications and Transactions Act 25 of 2002, KAYA 959 may use personal information collected to compile profiles for statistical purposes. No information contained in the profiles or statistics will be able to be linked to any specific user.    

  1. Collection of anonymous data

4.1. KAYA 959 may use standard technology to collect information about the use of this website. This technology is not able to identify individual users but simply allows KAYA 959 to collect statistics. 

4.2. KAYA 959 may utilise temporary or session cookies to keep track of users’ browsing habits. A cookie is a small file that is placed on your hard drive in order to keep a record of your interaction with this website and facilitate user convenience. 

4.2.1. Cookies by themselves will not be used to identify users personally but may be used to compile identified statistics relating to use of services offered or to provide KAYA 959 with feedback on the performance of this website. 

4.2.2. The following classes of information may be collected in respect of users who have enabled cookies: The browser software used; IP address; Date and time of activities while visiting the website; URLs of internal pages visited; and referrers. 

4.3. If you do not wish cookies to be employed to customize your interaction with this website it is possible to alter the manner in which your browser handles cookies. Please note that, if this is done, certain services on this website may not be available. 

  1. Security

5.1. KAYA 959 takes reasonable measures to ensure the security and integrity of information submitted to or collected by this website, but cannot under any circumstances be held liable for any loss or other damage sustained by you as a result of unlawful access to or dissemination of any personal information by a third party. 

  1. Links to other websites

6.1. KAYA 959 has no control over and accepts no responsibility for the privacy practices of any third party websites to which hyperlinks may have been provided and KAYA 959 strongly recommends that you review the privacy policy of any website you visit before using it further. 

  1. Queries

7.1. If you have any queries about this privacy policy please contact us by emailing [email protected]