How well do you know your partner? Do they have the qualities that help you become a better person?
Are you one of those partners that wants to know everything about their partner?
— Motho wa Modimo (@MModimo) August 17, 2021
The Best T in The City asked Kaya 959 listeners if they want to know everything about their partners, and what kind of information they insist on knowing:
No Tbose, I don’t #WantToKnowEVERYTHING
I just want to know what is necessary for our relationship.
Trying to know everything about your partner is a lifetime struggle that is not winnable first,but secondly it’s creepy. pic.twitter.com/8ZwUQf76dz
— Badimong (@Moriting) August 17, 2021
As Zulu’s bra @tboseZA we have a saying “induku Enhle igawulwa ezizweni” which loosely translates to “a wife is found in far away lands” and the reason behind finding a wife in far away lands is because we don’t want to know our partners history #WantToKnowEVERYTHING pic.twitter.com/3KwgvG216o
— Muntu (@Muntumuyeza) August 17, 2021
Sometimes knowing alles might be a turn off or even be the end of the relationship. I believe some information are better be kept where they belong in the past. #WantToKnowEVERYTHING
Here are 5 important things to know about your partner:
Habits That Annoy Them
This is very important in a relationship, and vital in the early stages of to pay attention to the small habits that annoys both you and your partner and communicating them as soon as you seen them. These are traits that can make them tricky to understand, and may cause you to disagree.
Heir Favorite Things – And People
This will come very handy for surprises, occasions and moments when you want to reassure each other of your love. Be prepared to also not like the same things or people. The trick is to have an open mind and keep a mental list of all these important things.
Their Dreams And Aspirations
A relationship should be able to help both you and your partner to reach your full potential and being aware of your partner’s dreams and aspirations is very important. What are the things that they look forward to? What are the goals and ambitions that they have decided to pursue?
The List Of Their Favorite Food
A way to your partner’s heart can sometimes be their favorite food. How well do you know your partner’s favorite food choices? What’s their favorite restaurant? This are important questions to answer, it also shows you pay attention and care.
Their Life Story
There is a long journey your partner has travelled before meeting you, and it’s important to see yourself as part of that journey. Where do fit in the journey? You have to fully accept what you can discover as you unravel their life story, both the good and bad parts.
[3 TSpoons] On Things Your Partner Doesn’t Need To Know:
🥄 Leftover Feelings You Have For An Ex
🥄 That You Find A Friend Attractive
🥄 That You Have Doubts About Your Relationship#TheBestTInTheCity
— On the street. On the air. (@KayaOnAir) August 17, 2021